I Cant Have Sex Help

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jo - April 8

hi im jo, me n my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now, we've got a loving and trusting relationship, however we have tried having s_x many times over the past year, but erm how can i put it... it wont go in, i no thats not the best way i could have put it, but it just wont, im always calm and relaxed, n we've talked everything thru and i have no worries, but it wont happen, i want to be able to do, is it possible that i wont eva b able 2?

 

PP - April 8

It is possible that your body is not ready. First I would go and get a gyn. exam. All s_xually active people shold be getting regular exams. Next talk to the doctor about the problems you are having. Finally please do your best to write your questions in English.

 

Hey Jo - April 8

It sounds like your either way to young for s_x or you're not s_xually ready yet. If you're under 18, hon it will wait. It won't spoil if you don't have s_x before then. If you're older than 18, you probably have not have enough foreplay. Virgins need lots of lubrication the first time. It may even hurt a little but with enough foreplay that will help. If you don't know what I am talking about, you're just too young. Don't rush it. It will wait.

 

Grandpa Viv - April 8

Google ... imperforate hymen ... I a__sume you have never been able to use a tampon either, but menstruation is normal. The hymen varies dramatically form one woman to another, the extreme being a hymen with no opening which presents serious problems at menarche. In your case some gradual finger stretching might work. Better yet, you should ask for a pelvic exam by your doctor, quite appropriate for your age, and ask that the hymen be surgically opened at that time.

 

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