I Hope I M Blowing This Out Of Proportion

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youngone963 - July 5

I'm young, and have been having s_x with my boyfriend for a while now. We've always been careful about protection and such. The other night we were both intoxicated and were just fooling around and i honestly don't know what got into either of our heads but we were both curious of how it would feel without a condom. I said no at first then he convinced me saying "i'll just put it in and pull it out." so i didn't see any harm to it. That was 4/5 days ago, and now i'm freaking out, i'm praying for my period to come around and i'm refusing to have s_x with him until it does. I'm scared, and i don't knwo whether it's because i'm freaking out now, but my stomach just seems to be BIG. But it's not possible after a few days, right? I don't know what to expect or what to do. I've honestly never been so scared about something...

 

lilmomma88 - July 5

No, it's not possible to be big after a few days. With first babies, usually you don't start showing until between 5 and 6 months. If he didn't pre-c_m or c_m inside you, then your not pregnant. But if he did, then it's very possible. Wait awhile (about 3-4 weeks) and take a test. Good luck, and be careful next time! (I know it's better without a condom, thats where my son came from! Also when your drunk its easy to do stuff like that...but you gotta be smart girlie!)

 

youngone963 - July 5

that's a relief.. i know he didn't c_m inside.. and he said before he actually put it in, he had wiped the pre-c_m of and such. Also, i don't know if it makes a difference, but we had s_x maybe 30 minutes before that, not even that, which is why we didn't bother thinking of a condom because we had already used the one we had.. Would that reduce the chances? And thank you for being so sweet about it lilmomma88!!

 

lilmomma88 - July 5

As long as he wiped off anything your chances are low, not eliminated, but low. I'd still advise you to take a test in a few weeks, just to be 100% sure. Anyway..how old are you? I'm 17 and a new mommy.. my little man was born on 6*26*06

 

lilmomma88 - July 5

n by the way your welcome...i know some of the girls on here are really harsh when it comes to things like this.. and its rediculous because you come here for advice and knowledge of others... and thats what you should get! not someone being rude and snotty because you don't know something! =)

 

youngone963 - July 6

lol well i'm 15, my boyfriend's 19. It sounds disgusting i know, but we've been together for almost a year now and didn't start having s_x til around march. we're extremely happy together, probably one of the happiest/closest couples around. But congrats with your little boy!! That's exciting! Good luck with everything!

 

MaMa 2 B - July 6

haha i'm 15 also...and my bf is 19 so dont let ppl judge u on that cuz age is just a number and if ur in love then who cares how old he is!!! we are also extremely happy and havin a baby in jan.

 

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