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anonymous - October 7th, 2005 9:01 PM

let me start at the beginning. im a sophmore in high school. my mom got married like a year ago, and like 2 months ago,he(my stepdad) started acting all weird. started telling me how beautiful i was, and how big my boobs are and crap like that, so i asked my dad to move in with him last month, but i didn't tell him why. well like a week after that, i had come home, but my mom wasn't there( she'd gone to some kind of meeting) I was on the computer when my stepdad came in and started acting like a perve agian. well, i started to leave, but he blocked my way and told me i couldn't go unless i would have sex with him. i was like" no way" so he pulled me onto my bed and raped me. i basically hinted around to it to my mom, but she was like" oh, you know he would never do that. he's the best thing that ever happened to me, i don't know what i'd do if i lost him" i know she knew what i was going to tell her, she just didn't want to hear it. now, ive moved in with my dad like 2 days ago, and i know im pregnant. ive got all the syptoms, and i got a positive on 3 pregnancy tests. im really scared. i don't know what to do. when my dad finds out what my stepdad did, he'll kill him. literally. and, he has to find out because when i tell him, he'll be really upset, and ask who the father is. and ive never ever been able to lie to my dad. ever. i never thought this would happen to me. i don't even know if i should keep the baby. i mean, my mom's husband raped me, and now i have a baby? it's really hard to think about. i don't want anything to happen to my dad because if he does something stupid, it'll be my fault. i really need him now.

kellie - October 7th, 2005 9:18 PM

Sweetie, I am so sorry this happened to you, none of this is your fault. You need to tell your father what happened to you, and then the two of you need to go together to the police to report this. If you think your father won't be able to handle the news without doing something stupid you may want to think about going to a school counselor first and they can help you figure out the best way to go about handling this or refer you to someone who can help you through the process.

JJ - October 8th, 2005 11:25 AM

WOAH!!!!!!!!!! U NEED TO O TO HE COPS. forget what ur mom thinks, this guy mite do it again. he is mentally diturbed, suck minded and a RAPIST. but i dont know if u wna keep it or not. im so u had to go thru that, an dthat ur 1st child was concived like that. im not sure about the girl that dont belive u. but if u r lying thenthats wrong but if ur telling the truth, consider my advice

Harpie Lady - October 8th, 2005 12:30 PM

I'm sorry to say this but I can't help but think that you're the same girl who not to long ago claimed to be raped by her stepdad, but then admitted she was lying. It's too similar to that story. I think you're that same girl but just changing the story a bit. I hope if you are lying nothing like this happens to you and I hope that you fess up soon if you are lying.

To "uh not again" - October 8th, 2005 4:36 PM

professional help costs to much money. coming to this site is free. i think if this girl needs attention then this is the perfect place. just as she is pretending to have a problem we can pretend to care. it is not like her story is completely unbelievable any way. some one else may be in her shoes and can read this post.

anonymous - October 9th, 2005 11:30 PM

ok. listen, ive probably been on this site about 3 times total before i posted something. i didn't give advice to anyone, i just coasted it to see if i would get any good advice about my problems. and also, to clear this up, i had spoken to my dad to move in with him. i couldn't move in right away, so we scheduled a date so i could pack my things a transfer schools and stuff like that. that date that i scheduled just happened to be 2 days before i posted. so, my post does add up. and, how could i have posted this same story a few months ago when i just found out im pregnant? and, i don't think that if someone got caught in a lie, they'd come and post the same story agian. so if you just came on here to tell me that i'm lying, just please keep it to yourself, because it's not really helping. i don't know you, and i can't make you believe me, so if you don't, please keep it to yourself because it's only making me feel worse. you don't know me, so don't judge me.

me - October 10th, 2005 12:08 AM

first of all none of this is your fault!! please don't think that! this is all his fault. the first thing you need to do is tell your mother everything..dont hint it..tell her. if she doesnt believe you shes got issues of her own. then tell your father you need to talk to him but not to freak out because he means so much to you and you really need him. tell him u were raped and u are now pregnant...then when he asks if u know who tell him u do but make him promise not to do anything more than call the cops. when your baby is born everyone will believe you because of a beautiful thing called DNA...he wont be able to deny it and thats all that matters. he'll go to jail and ur mom will love you no matter what..and i promise u any good feelings she had for him will then be bad..she wont love him and hre heart wont be broken becasue of him..she'll hate him..if she's any mother at all she will hate him and want him in jail! good luck with everything!! God Bless you! if u really want help pray to God he;ll show you the way! i promise!

Harpie Lady - October 10th, 2005 8:57 PM

I don't know. Whatever you say.

Heather - October 11th, 2005 6:07 PM

Hey sweetie, That's got to be so hard. I can't imagine what you are going through. You need to tell your Daddy right away so he can get you to the police. Don't make yourself do this alone. Who cares about your mom? She HAS to know even if she thinks it will ruin her life. She's living with a rapist. He can hurt your mom too, someday. Or if they possibly have another baby he could get her too. You shouldn't have to feel like this, you need the love and support from your daddy. He needs to try and save you from this. TELL HIM RIGHT AWAY! You can have your dad take you to police right away or go to the police first.

randi - October 11th, 2005 9:04 PM

sit down with your dad and first tell him theirs something you want to talk to him about but let him know its hard for you to tell him and let him know how much you need him and hes all you got i would then tell him what happened and now that your pregnant. good luck and God bless. be strong

anonymous - October 12th, 2005 9:23 AM

I can imagine how you feel when I was 15 I had a neighbor who was in his 80's my mom thought he was great.he never raped me but he sure tried to feel me up and would have went further if I let him a number of times.there was no telling my mom that to her he was a saint.I'm telling you this to let you know your not alone it happens everyday.these people are sick,it's not your fault and you didn't do anything wrong.go to the policeand bring charges agaist him.when the baby is born a DNA test will prove it is his and your mom will have no choice but to believe it.I'm guessing at that point he will say you came on to you.BE far as your real dad maybe a third party can be ther with you and keep him from doing anything some point in the future you and your mom will fix things.until then surround yourself with support.

anonymous - October 12th, 2005 9:25 AM

I ment "you came on to him"

- October 12th, 2005 6:35 PM

anonymous- go to the police, put him in jail, your mom in better without him and he won't be able to do this to anyone else. and go get an abortion before it's too late.

anonymous - October 13th, 2005 4:17 PM

what if i go to court and stuff, and he's found not guilty, or my mom still thinks i'm lying? i don't know if i'd be able to sit up in court and tell EXACTLY what he did to me. it's so embarassing. if my dad's in the room when i say it, he'll go crazy. i still haven't thought about how i'm going to support this baby, or even if i'm going to have it. but i really don't think i'd be able to get an abortion.

fake - October 13th, 2005 5:07 PM

this sound like alifetime movie

andi - October 13th, 2005 6:44 PM

I think that you really need to hurry up and tell someone, especially if you are pregnant. Go do to the nearest Planned Parenthood, and tell them what happened, they will have the police there in no time. Keep us posted.

Heather - October 13th, 2005 7:09 PM

Don't worry, it will work out. It may be embarressing to say what he did but you will be putting him away for life by exposing his disguisting and sick self. He will go to jail. About the baby. I understand how hard it would be to have the baby but you could give him up for adoption. If your mom doesn't believe you she's in denile and she will realize someday, maybe after hearing you testify. Don't worry so much. TELL YOUR DAD! He will help you. It will be harder but it won't be harder than living with this.


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