I Need To Know If She Is Pregnant

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joe45 - March 8

hi im 18 and my girlfriend is 16. We had s_x for the second time last week. i used a condom and did not ejacutale but she is 9 days late on her peroid we also did 2 pregnancy test and they were both negative. What is going on please i need advice.

 

Nerdy_Girl_10242006 - March 8

Maybe she is stressed...Stress can delay your period. But keep in mind, you can get pregnant well using protection...I did. We even checked the condom every time after we were done for leaks but things work in mysterious ways. But I once had a delayed period for 2 weeks cause it was a stupid month (wasn't s_xually active) but just proves to show it can happen.

 

Nerdy_Girl_10242006 - March 8

Late periods that is...I don't want people writing me back saying that I just said we could get pregnant without having s_x...lol you have to be VERY clear with posting on these boards. Consider yourself warned ; )

 

joe45 - March 8

she could be stressed ive read about that but lets just say she is pregnant. she would be about 2 weeks, she says she is sick now she threw up the other night and she is in school now and she is in the nurse because of a headache, yesterday she had a temperature of 100 in school. i have heard about morning sickness but she had a fever and everything. Do you think this is just a concidence?

 

abriamiacadia - March 8

Well considering morning sickness is throwing up. I dont think it has anything to do w/ having a temp. I think she's just sick. AND you cant just be 2 weeks pregnant lol. Your worrying yourself hun. You needta wait about another month, then take a preg test if she hasnt had her period yet. You dont start getting sick at 2 wks.

 

KaseyA - March 8

Give it a couple of days and retest. Maybe she is just coming down with the flu. There are many reasons to throw up other than morining sickness. I would just wait a couple of days and if her period doen't show then she should take another test.

 

joe45 - March 8

i know, im sorry, i just havent slept in days and im so worried because this isnt how i want to start my life im only 18 and i dont think it would be fair to have a child with a 16 year old mother and a 1 year old father. we have only been together for 6 months and were no where near ready to have a child.

 

joe45 - March 8

i just dont understand this because i did use a condom and it was her first time so we did it for about 30 seconds and then had to stop becuase it hurt and i did not even ejaculate, but she said she has never been this late and that is why im worried. She has also told me her b___sts are sore but she said that can be a sign of her period coming.

 

abriamiacadia - March 8

Just wait. There isnt anything you can do right now. Do you remember the exact day you had s_x?

 

Nerdy_Girl_10242006 - March 8

Ok when was the first time you and her had s_x, and when was the first day of her last period, are they regular? She wouldn't be pregnant when you and her has s_x last week...although the first time depending on when she could be pregnant. If you aren't ready for a child then s_x shouldn't be on your mind right now. I m 18 and 14 weeks pregnant, my husband is also 18. but you need to understand that anytime you have s_x there is a slim chance, if you and her have s_x when she ovulates there is a 25% chance, and even though you use a condom, condoms break and or something may happen. If you aren't ready to face the consequenses of s_x, then all I can say is stay abstinant, especially if yours and her age bothers you so much. Sleeping with a 16 year old may turn into having a child with a 16 year old and I don't see where the difference is OK that you can sleep with her without it bothering you, but when it comes to having a baby with her its bad. Either way you should have an issue with age, and that should also be taken into consideration the moment you slept with her. If she isn't pregnant then try to wait it out, maybe you don't want to hear that, but that is the best way to prevent pregnancy. If you read along in some of these threads, you will hear most of these girls saying that if they only knew before, they wouldn't have ever had s_x at all. If your not ready, then stay away from it and that is the best advice that I can actually give you at this point. S_x leads to pregnancy, and pregnancy isn't going to wait for you to be ready, and if you feel teh way you do about her age, then you and her need to think about what you are doing because there is still a chance of her becoming pregnant even if you use a condom. I got pregnant twice using protection, the first pregnancy I miscarried, but soon after I got pregnant again. There is still going to be a chance, and if you are this worried and this scared you can do something about it now if she isn't pregnant.

 

joe45 - March 8

it was not last saturday but the saturday before that

 

joe45 - March 8

what else could be causing her to be 10 days late on her period?

 

KaseyA - March 8

You should also try not to stress out so much. Its a good thing that your concerned and are involved, but try to stay calm and keep her calm.

 

KaseyA - March 8

It could be stress, a change in her diet, maybe even a medical reason. If she keeps getting a negative test and no period she needs to see a doctor.

 

FF - March 8

Her age can also be a factor- lots of teenage girls have irregular periods. Mine was never normal even up into my 20's. I think it's probably a combination of her age and being stressed.

 

joe45 - March 8

I am trying my best to being calm about it but she for some reason is much more calm than me, I explained to her about the different sensitivity levels of the tests. I have the first response test and that detects at 25 hcg. She said to me "go ahead get every test they make i will take then and they will all come up negative." Im not sure why but she is very sure she is not pregnant.

 

babyonboard16 - March 8

I doubt shes pregnant, but go to planned parenthood or somehwere like that and get a blood test done just to be sure?

 

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