I Should Just Kill Myself

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Ruined - December 7

Im 15 with a 1year old my mom has custody of my son. And she has kicked me out. I might be pregnant again. I can't tell my mom she won't support me. My whole family already does not talk to me any more for already having a son. Im by myself right now. Worrying where im going to lay my head every night. I can't bare to tell my mom even though she has kicked me out and i only see my son 2 days a week I love her so much i am so mad at myself!! Please some one there help me.

 

Allen - December 7

Don't kill yourself. You would be depriving your 1-year-old of a mom. Rather, finish high school or get your GED, and, when you aren't at school or doing your homework, focus all of your spare time and efforts on becoming a good mother. Your child needs you. If you are indeed pregnant again, you might definitely want to look at giving it up for adoption. There are many loving couples who would be able to provide a great environment for a baby.

 

Ruined - December 7

But in order for me to give it up for adoption i would have to tell my mom. I can't bare to

 

Allen - December 7

I don't know your mother personally, so I can't tell you what she would say or do, but if you're pregnant, she's going to find out sooner or later. Maybe you have a trusted friend or relative who would go with you when you talk to your mother, or at least help you figure out what to say? Having s_x and making babies requires a tremendous amount of maturity, so really need to set your fears aside and do the right thing here for yourself and your kid.

 

Laul - December 7

Where are you staying now?

 

Tesa - December 7

Killing yourself is no the answer there are lots if homes for pregnnat teenage mothers - go to a shelter - there are so many places out there to help you need to figure out what you want to do about this second pregnnacy before talking to your mom about it it is your choice - you are very young to be going through all this - Don't kill yourself your hurt your mom you'll hurt your son -

 

Nie - December 8

i didnt know they had computers in cardboard boxes?

 

Lo - December 8

Have an abortion.

 

Ruined - December 9

First of all to the girl who said I didn't think they had computers in cardboard boxes, I did not come on here to be judge I came on here for help. I'm staying with a friend

 

Ruined - December 9

Thats the thing i'm alone I don't have money to get an abortion. And my family would not help me out in any way.

 

vc - December 9

As said before it is ILLEGAL for someone your age to be chucked out. And I don't know why your mothers being like that, after all what exmple of a mother is she setting you if she just gets rid as soon as something happens. She needs to grow up. And how can she have been granted custody of your son if she chucked her own daughter out? I a__sume custody was given through court? If so I cannot see how she would be cla__sed fit. Go to the police and tell them what has happened. Your mother has to provide you with somewhere to live, and get her talking. Everyone makes mistakes and she cannot put this against you for the rest of your life. If she is stubborn then you should contact your local housing dept, then apply for custody of your son.

 

Ruined - December 9

My mother has custody of my son because I had him so young I could not get insurance for him so trusting my mom I gave her custody so he could get on her insurance. Three months later my mom kicked me out. I don't want to call the police because even though she doesnt love me I love her with all my heart and she is the only person in my family who talks to me. I'm just afraid that it will back fire in my face. My family does not talk to me cuz when my mother kicked me out she told my family I ran away and abandoed my son.

 

Ruined - December 9

My mother has custody of my son because I had him so young I could not get insurance for him so trusting her I gave her custody so he could have insurance. Three months later she kicked me out. I dont want to call the police because even though no one in my family will talk to me because when she kicked me out she told my family I ran away and abanoded my son. She even finally told them it wasn't true but they still chose not to talk to me. I love my mom with all my heart I wish so bad I could move back in and be with her and my son. But I talked to her again and she and my brother and her boyfriend are moving and I begged her if I could come back she said were getting a two bedroom house and there is no room for you. I am so depressed, I cry myself to sleep every night. I hope one day when I wake up my mom will love me again. I'm getting to the point where I don't even think I am worth living anymore.

 

Katie - December 10

Personally i don't really believe this story and how can you be worried about where your going to lay your head every night, if you have a good enough friend that you feel at home using their computer then you don't really have to be worried about your head and were your going to lay it do you?

 

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