I Told My Boyfriend I Lost The Baby But Didnt Really

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MiZz NiKkI - October 11

When my boyfriend 1st found out i was prego he was furious like it was all my fault. So 2 months went by and all he did was yell at me telling me to get an abortion... tell one day i just got tired of it and told him i lost it. Did i do the right thing? Or should he know???

 

Grandpa Viv - October 11

This boyfriend does not sound like a keeper. Do you want to spend the rest of your life being yelled at? Get gutsy! Why not simply cool the relationship to the point where he asks what is the matter, then tell him "Listen, I got fed up with your abortion speech, so I told you I lost it. Actually, I am looking forward to its birth. Do you want to part of its life, or not?"

 

Karlastacyplusbaby - November 21

Nikki, I know that having someone yell at you is no fun... and you definitely should not have to put up with that. That being said, you don't have to compound one mistake with another..aka... just because you are pregnant doesn't mean you have to stay with a jerk who is not supporting you in the difficult time. He does has the right to know however if he is going to have a child in this world...but as Grandpa Viv said... make ti clear to him that you do not need his negativity in your life!! I hope you are getting support somewhere..from your parents or friends! Best of luck! Karla

 

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