I Want A Baby Too

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babygrl69 - March 19

I am only 14 and i want a baby, my freind found out she is preg and now i want to be preg to wit her. Does anybody know anythig about sprem banks?? I relly want a baby now. thx

 

alicia - March 19

a sperm bank will not give sperm to anyone under 21(in the states) you also have to go through screening to make sure you can take care of it.

 

KM - March 19

I'm sure it costs WAY more money than you can afford at 14 yrs old. lol

 

Audrey - March 21

Babygrl- Being pregnant at 14 is a lot harder than it looks. Your body has not finished developing yet so having a child can be painful and/or dangerous. Finish school first and live life for a while before starting a family. Best wishes!

 

searria - March 21

u need 2 finish school before u think about a baby really if u want one go ahead and try. it is very hard being a parent soooooooooo dang young I want one to im tryin my hardest to get it good luck

 

Jaya - March 22

No.... you dont

 

Marie - March 22

Lets all stop for a second and think about this. First of all, bashing the poor girl isn't going to help anything. Yes we've established that she is 14 and wants to have a baby. Sure, maybe she doesn't really know the responsibilities of being a mother. so why don't we educate her instead of demeaning her? babygrl69 you need to ask yourself some serious questions before you decide that you want to be a mother. 1.What is the real reason that you want this baby? is it because you want to be pregnant with your friend because she is pregnant and you want your babies to grow together, or is it because you want the attention she is getting because she is pregnant? 2. Can you afford this baby? Babies cost money. Im not talking about pocket change here, Im talking about hard earned money. Think about it. You have to buy diapers, clothes, bath supplies, medicine if your baby gets sick. You need a good paying job, if you want to raise a child. 3. Babies aren't babies forever, they grow into children, which grow into teenagers, which is what you are now. Sure they are cute and cuddley now, but what is it going to be like in 15 years when they stay out past their curfew and you're worrying yourself, wondering where they are and why they haven't called? ;] 4. What about the father? You say your friend is pregnant. Im going to take a good guess and say that she didn't get the sperm from a sperm bank, and that the father of her baby is someone she knows. So with that asumption, Im going to ask you this, if by some random miracle you end up getting sperm from a sperm bank (which is highly unlikely) who is going to be the father of your baby? Though there are many single parents out there in the world that do a wonderful job (and god bless them, my mom was one of them) a child does need a father figure in its life. I speak from personal experience. Remember, this is not just about what you want, it's what the baby wants too. Which is what worries me the most. You may want a baby, but if you can't take care of the baby, it will be a hard life for both you and your child. Im not telling you what to do. Im only telling you the facts of the situation. Please really consider what you are doing sweety before you make the wrong decision too late. Take Care

 

becca - March 22

if you really wanted a baby you wouldnt come onm here and say you want one you would of gone and got your self pregnant already it isnt all its cracked up to b i mean i love it i dont c a bad side to be honest but i certanly dint plan it so just wait till your older there isnt any need to rush is there u have your hole life a head of you babys are for life not 4 a week

 

Laura - April 8

WELL SAID MARIE!!! Some people are just d__n arrogant and think thier tough by using thier fingers to type some naughty nasty words.... But i totally agree with everything you said up there... Go on Girl! xx

 

Laura - April 8

BABYGRL69 - Just enjoy your teens! get through them, and make a success!!! I know what its like to be confused about this - but i stayed on track, and now? im nearly 20 with an amazing fiance - maybe in the future - when we are properly financially secured - we will have one. But enjoy your life first!! Have fun! You dont want to end up regretting it if you become such a young mum, seeing all your friends go out - having to struggle for money... I totally agree with Marie - she has given you the best advice on here 10/10 for Marie! ~x~x~

 

grandma - April 8

you are to young to be thinking about a child. if you really want a child you know how to make one if you want one. life is to short you should just enjoy life, stay as a child that is your best bet. it's alot that follow behind being a teen mother. so just wait think about it a little more before you make a mistake in life.

 

lil onnie - April 19

well i think you r to young but if thats what you want then go on,but you should just live your own life by your self until you and your mate r ready.Because you r going to see all of your friends doing what they want and you r going to stuck in the house with a baby.I want a baby just as much as you but me and my mate have been together for a very long time so you should not even do it. how are you goin to tell your mother and father?what are they going to say?Are they going to be happy?I dont know what to say your only 14 live your life and keep being your own person.

 

LIL ONNIE - April 19

WELL I SAY THAT YOU R TO YOUNG TO BE WANTING A BABY BECAUSE YOU R ONLY 14 AND YOU SHOULD OMLY BE THINKING ABOUT GOING WALKING WITH YOUR LIL FRIENDS.IF YOU TOLD YOUR MOM AND DAD WHAT WOULD THEY SAY?BUT I WANT A BABY MORE THEN ANYTHING AND DO YOU KNOW THAT ITS HARD? WHY DO YOU WANT A BABY? I THINK YOU SHOULD WAIT UNTIL YOU AND YOUR MATE R READY TO HAVE A BABY.I SAY THAT BECAUSE ME AND MY MATE BEEN TOGETHER FOR A LONG TIME.YOU SHOULD REALLY WAIT REALLY.

 

sam - April 19

babygrl69.... i think you are a bit lealous of your friend because she is pregnant. i think your being selfish that you want to be pregnant with your friend. you are also far to young to be a mother, your name says it all BABYGRL....im not trying to be mean, but think smart not foolish.

 

lily - May 1

i was 12 when i got preg.ilove my three babys so much.it is a lot of work,my babys just tured 1 2 days ago.you should have a child.but its your dision.not your parends.

 

katie - May 2

to lily-are u sayin u had triplets at 12?? xxx katie

 

hunny - May 18

do what you want, it's your life noone elses

 

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