I Was Raped And I Am 13 And Pregnant HELP

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Morning After Pill - January 10

you can only take the morning after pill within 48hours after intercourse. comman since here look at the name of the pill its not a month after pill its a morning after pill.

 

donna - January 10

keep da baby, and then when he/she wants 2 know who its daddy is u can tell him hes a kiddie fuQin rapist, ur child will b on top of the world

 

Get it right - January 10

The morning after pill can be taken 72 hours (3 days) after unprotected s_x.

 

CHLOE - January 14

I GOT PREGNANT AT 14. i HAD THE BABY AND IT WAS THE WORSE THING I CUD HAVE DONE. WE ARE BOTH TRAPPED NOW IN A HIGH RISE FLAT. I AM TINKN OF GIVING HIM UP FOR ADOPTION. i SHOULD HAVE HAD AN ABORTION. THATS WHAT I THINK ANYWAY. mY LIFE IS RUINED - ISHOULD HAVE LISTENED TO MY MUM AND ALL. ALL YOU WHO ARE GONA SAY IM EVIL - REMEMBER ANY KIND OF LIFE IS NOT BETTER THAN NO LIFE. mY BABY HASNT A CHANCE AND NEITHER DO I - KEEP IT REAL..

 

Fred - January 15

You are 13 , DONT GO ON WITH THIS PREGNANCE - This will be unfair to the child as well as he will be born from a un loving memory - you are 13 and if you wait a liftine to 26 years you will be off better . So much still await you so rather take controll and do what your mother said - she knows best - SOONER THIS IS DONE THE BETTER !

 

KAYLEE - January 15

hi im pregnant to n im 15 it is very scary but because u got raped does not mean u can take it out on the baby it didnt plan that to happen but yes u shud stil go to skol until u r due

 

Julia - January 15

Kellyann please read my post thinking about abortion. Please before you decide to abort. Thin of the familys who could and would love and care for that baby. email me [email protected] And DONT listen to the pure stupidity of some on this board.

 

to abort or not to abort - January 16

well i dont sopport abortion but in some cases i do in yours i think i would beacuse u didnt want to get raped and your whole life is gona b differnt iam not saying u cant b a g8! mother cause iam sure u can but if u have it its going 2 b very hard on u trying to raise the baby and money oh and if u decide to have it and your still going to school well most pepole will under standing but some ppl will b stright up rude! and as for your bf i dont mean to bring bad luck but maybe hill leave? his just prubly around ur age and just think about ur futer? your not going to b able to do other things that other 13 yr girls r doing and your going to have to take care of the baby for 18yrs so that mean until your 31! your whole teenage life and 20's will be rasieing up your kid and who knows if your b able to go to hs foot ball games or homecoming or any like that even tho your only 13 i know your not in hs yet but when you what r u going to tell ur kid "ur staying with grandma case iam going to a homecoming dance" iam not trying to bring you down iam just tring to give you the facts but if you do plain on haveing it i wish u the best and i think this dision is up to YOU not ur mom so do what u feel is right best of luk! :) ps stay in schoolit will help u in the long run

 

Kat - January 17

Why do so many people say "just because you were raped doesnt mean you can take it out on the baby" and "its not the babys fault"? It wasn't the girls fault she got pregnant in the first place, she was FORCED. Why should she then be FORCED into keeping a child just because other people don't believe in abortion?

 

my story - January 17

Ok like you Kellyann I was too raped (by a 27yr old) but I was 15 and yes fell pregnant my b/f too was very supportive. I did not want an abortion too but still do now wish I had had an abortion. I gave birth to a healthy baby boy who is 7 now and I married the guy I was dating at the time of my rape. However I have since had another 2 babies to my husband but everytime I look into my sons eyes I see the visions of my rape and can now see that I have never had the same bond with him that I have had with my other two. He did ask me the other day why he does not seem to look like his father. How do I now try to explain to him that his father raped me . Kellyann think about this and the pain further on down the track for your unborn child. You will have other children and they will to be a long term father, please consider I wish I had.

 

TQ - January 24

To: 16-f-usa - grow up you silly little smackhead

 

amanda - January 24

hi im soz 2 hear that im 15 im also preg i got raped if u would like 2 talk heres my email [email protected] dont go back 2 school its not a good idea xxxxx

 

amanda - January 24

egnore these sad acts ok u do what u want 2 do dont forget its ur baby ur carring u got raped but that dont mean u have 2 get rid of the baby hes urs now do the right thing dont get rid of it u might be 13 but all i can do is pray 2 god u will get through it im 15 years old i got raped when i was 13 years old i got rid of it and for the past 2 years all iv done is thought what have i done iv killed my own child now im 15 and preg again and theres no way im getting rid of it the father is 18 and he is willing 2 stand by me all the way my mam is very mad but copeing wid it plz do not do sumthink stupid pray to god thats all im happy im haveing this child well both of us are iv got a nuther sister who is 16 she has just had a baby she was preg at 15 also her bf is 20 she had it on the 5th of jan it was a boy called joseph she is happy so will u be if u have it do u want 2 hold it in ur arms kiss it let it say its first words push it around take it 2 school i would and i am going 2 do that if u wanna chat email me [email protected] good luck hun x x x x

 

Mommy2Kylie - January 24

BabybeeGirl- I really don't like how you said "whatever you do don't get an abortion" who the hell are you to say that to someone? You don't know her, you don't get to tell her what to do. If she can't handle this baby, or a pregnancy, at 13 thats VERY understandable, and if she does get an abortion thats HER buisness. Don't try and push your opinions on abortion on other people. Its wrong.

 

KoKo - January 24

Do you really want too keep it.. your only 13..you have sooo much too think about..i wud say listen to your mother.

 

LynZ - January 25

WOW, what is there to think about...do you lack love or somehting?? Get an abortion, stay in school, go to university, and have kids when your older and ready! Your still a child, you have your whole life ahead of you, dont rob yourself out of a childhood, after all, it only comes once in a lifetime!! Much luck!

 

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