I Was Raped And I Just Need Someone To Talk To

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Kala5080 - June 8

Im 14 and pregnant. The father is my ex boyfriend, who raped me and im now pregnant with his child. Im scared out of my ever loving mind. I dont know what to do, but i do know i will not kill my baby! She is precious to me even if she was conceived through rape. Im just really confused and stressed. I cant tell my family because they would blame me. What am i going to do? I just really need someone to talk to..

 

Grandpa Viv - June 9

I'm truly sorry for you in a bad situation. First off, don't let guilt get the better of you - we tend to blame ourselves when something like this happens, going over and over what we should have done different. The process is part of the survival instinct. It would be a poor bird that lost its tail feathers twice at the same feeder. Work through that if you can, and move on to planning the future. Please realize that your thinking your family would blame you is something in your own mind. The family will be more than willing to pitch in and offer help with decision making provided you ask for it. Chat with me on AIM or Yahoo as ppowb if you think it will help. I have listened to stories worse than yours. Good luck!

 

Miranda18 - June 30

I am sorry. Well I know someone who was raped by their cousin, so look on the bright side. Good luck with the baby! God bless

 

awwbabybaby - July 1

I don't believe very many mothers could blame their daughter for anything if they claimed to be raped. I would suggest talking to your mom, If shes in the picture. Or maybe a grandmother or a close aunt or cousin? good luck

 

Nightbane34 - July 1

That's scary. That's really not cool. My ex got raped and pregnant. If youre scared or need someone to talk to. You can talk to me

 

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