Im Only 13

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Lindsey Ngo - June 4

i had unprotected s_x with my bf a couple times..2 weeks later im getting darker nipples and i felt really dizzy when i went to a vacation with my family..if im pregnant what should i do?? if my parents will find out they will kick me out! i don't want my parents to find out but they eventually will because of my stomach right??

 

Christina - June 3

Well first of all..do your parents know you aren't a virgin? If you are pregnant they can't kick you out because you are under 16 and would have no place to go. If things get rough at home just go spend a night at a friends out to let your parents cool off. The first thing you need to do before you tell them is tell your boyfriend you think you might be pregnant. His reaction will determine everything. I would suggest getting a EPT test at a local store.

 

Amanda - June 3

Take a pregnancy test on the day of your first missed period. Don't tell your parents until you know for sure if you are. If you have a local health dept (like my town) they usually sell cheap tests. If you're not pregnant, they also sell BC pills for cheap (sometimes free) and they don't tell your parents about it.

 

Shelly - June 4

Are you late for your period? If you're not yet the home test won't work. If you want to know for sure quickly, have a blood test done at your doctor's office or a clinic. Blood tests can tell if you're pregnant before you miss a period. Do you have someone you can talk to in person? Now would be a good time. They can help you get tested. The sooner you know if you're pregnant or not, the more options you have. Why do you think your parents would kick you out? If you really don't feel comfortable talking to your parents, talk to an adult you do feel comfortable with. They can help you talk to your parents. You could ask them to be there with you and help you to communicate in the best way. Your parents are probably going to find out anyway. Things will be better if they hear it from you rather than someone else. It sounds like you have a close family, most families with teens don't vacation together.Remember, parents are just people, they aren't perfect. It's just their job to do the best they can for their children and protect them. It will be hard for them to deal with, but they will. Let me know how you're doing. Love, Shelly

 

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