Immature Forum

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R__ - November 17

now i know everybody is most likey about to disagree with me but he is my opinion about what i see on this teen forum. honestly, i don't like coming to it and there are few people that do who either have actual problems that need answers or people who get answers to their questions. The reason being? everyone else is too worried about who is saying this or who is saying that. there is always going to be people who lie, people who run their mouth, make fun of people, be complete ***holes, but you have to learn to deal with it instead of dragging it out. As i know a hitbitual liar myself, yes i talk to him but i don't believe anything he says but i also don't sit around and make fun of him like a little kid i treat him like a normal person because generally people that are like that picked the habit up from either just trying to fit in or something similar. people who run their mouth =) just ignore them. these forums were not made to criticize people for what they say, what they have done 10 years ago, what lies they tell, how weird they seem to be. it's to help people out with their pregnancies. now wether they got 20 different stories about how it happened or just one it is your choice to give them positive advice and if you don't like what they are saying let someone else help them out. This is the kind of stuff that children do. its also the kind of stuff that tears me up because if you get down to it, its plain out ridiculous that people can't show common courtsey to anybody these days no matter how they act. now unless they are putting you in danger or something then i would side with you to sit here and call them out and say a bunch of stuff. if you are one of the ones with questions that don't get answered because of this idiocy that i see everywhere write me a question on myspace and i will answer the best i can. GOOD LUCK EVERYONE WITH THEIR PREGNANCIES. =) my myspace is /girlof352

 

grow_up - November 17

TEEN forum......not mature adult forum.

 

R__ - November 17

that is exactly it. people who are pregnant and are about to raise a child shouldn't be posting thread after thread about making fun of people all day long it gets ridiculous. there are also some MATURE teens out there who are looking for actual advice who do not care what anyone thinks about anyone else. Now it's up to the people who post here regularly to determine if they want to be considered an immature little kid or someone that is gonna act MATURE ADULT for their CHILD. Now im not badgering anyone. i just think that some people around here seriously need to think about how they are acting on a pregnancy forum. if you want teen drama go to another website and post about everybody's lives and what you think is good and bad. That is my advice to the people who post threads like this constantly.

 

PreciousBaby19 - November 17

liekt his thread is helping

 

grow_up - November 17

Then perhaps girls shouldn't post about their recurrent miscarriages, not bother to get tested to find out why they keep happening, then go on a baby making spree and putting their current pregnancy at risk by not getting proper medical care.

 

R__ - November 17

well your thread is only making things worse. this thread wasnt for you to come to badger me as well. it's to help the ones who come to this forum looking for advice. GROW_UP--well if that is someone's choice to not go find out maybe she has a reason for that. maybe she is afraid because miscarriages are scary and hard to cope with. like i said it's untelling what is going on there but it's not our place to sit back and come up with all the ideas either. if you think it's a bunch of lies or whatever then just don't post to it. because if it turns out that way then it's just getting more attention than it needs. fueling the fire you know. but in the meantime we are not there, we dont know these people in person in any kind of way. i just want everyone to understand where i am coming from. because i know if i had a miscarriage i would be terrified of every pregnancy there after. and i wouldn't want anyone sitting around running their mouth about me because im having problems or whatever you know.

 

grow_up - November 17

I'm not fond of needles, a stranger dabbling around between my legs, doctors, or hospitals, but that doesn't mean I'm not going to take care of myself. Some causes of miscarriages CAN be treated. She could have a simple problem like low pregesterone, get some suppositories, and have a successful pregnancy, but if that was the case and she WASN"T being checked properly early on, she could go on to miscarry. Wouldn't you feel aweful if you found out after the fact your pregnancy had a chance at continuing? As a mother it's your responsibility to do everything possible to keep that pregnancy, even if you don't like it, even if it's scary, even if it's uncomfortable.

 

PreciousBaby19 - November 17

I'm not trying to make it worse..I'm just stating that people are just going to come on here and get it on with you. i dont have a problem with you cause i dont know you and i am just warning you so you dont get involved. hope you have a nice day

 

jennifer_33106 - November 17

OH looky!! Another fun filled Drama post!! Ladies, Grab your picnic blankies, a hotdog and dont forget the popcorn!! Everyone have tonights program handy!!?? The gloves are coming off! Nails are being sharpened!!! RROOAARRR!!!!!!!!

 

grow_up - November 17

lol I'm sorry, it just p__ses me off. I think that is the most irresponsible excuse in the world. Of course we're all nervous at every appointment wondering if everything is ok. Just because you are afraid something will be wrong is NOT a reason to not get proper care.

 

R__ - November 17

GROW_UP--well no matter what the reason, was, is, or whatever, we shouldn't criticize anyone about their choices in life. it was their to choice to choose whatever they did. and they are the ones that have to live with the consequences. not us, it's none of our business. but like i said if people are tired of hearing they don't have to choose to put up with it but there are real people that go on her for real advice and such things and if they see this forum flooded with threads like the one i just made and similar ones they are going to be discouraged to post and/or use the site perhaps. and i wouldn't want to turn anyone away from having the oppurtunity of getting some advice to help them with their pregnancy. PRECIOUSBABY--that's fine though. anywhere in this world your bound to run into trouble, heartbreak, petty immature stuff, even on the internet, which is sad to say but hey it happens. now i know this isn't my business because i don't know the kendra girl or anyone of you, and definately havent talked about anyone here, i have no reason to, im just here to discuss what im going through and i a__sociate myself with the people going through similar things. If i see a post that's just ridiculous or something that has been asked a million times i'm just going to skip over it. and im sure there are people out there who are saying and doing things on the internet to get attention if thats the case, you got to look at it like a little kid, they want attention they cry, kick, and scream generally until they get in trouble or get their way. if you believe this is an attention getter then either ignore it (getting in trouble) or feed into it and keep posting things that are negative about her (getting her way). PLUS YOU NEVER KNOW THERE COULD BE A MILLION REASONS WHY THINGS DIDN'T WORK OUT. AND YOU DON'T KNOW FOR SURE IF SHE EVER HIT THE DOCTOR'S OFFICE OR NOT NOT ONE OF US WAS THERE HOLDING HER HAND WHILE SHE WAS PREGNANT. AND ALL HONESTY THE GIRL IS PROBABLY SITTING BACK LAUGHING HYSTERICALLY THAT EVERYONE KEEPS GOING ON ABOUT IT. YOU NEVER KNOW SHE COULD BE PREGNANT RIGHT NOW WITH A HEALTHY BABY WITH A DOC. APP. ON MONDAY. JUST TO SEE YOU GET A RISE.

 

grow_up - November 17

I believe NOSEY FORUM is a better way of putting it

 

jennifer_33106 - November 17

haha regardless of how immature we all are, who is lying, and who is being a b___h, This is a great way to pa__s time! This is the Soap Opera corner of the pgy info site. haha As the teen forum turns...

 

PreciousBaby19 - November 17

Dude..i'm not in the kendra thing. if people think shes a liar there isn't much i can do about it. I'm just p__sed at DB..lol other than that...i just want to find those who are ttc with me who you can actually trust to talk to ..a.nd forum a basic and nice friendship.

 

grow_up - November 17

She IS pregnant now and she doesn't have an obgyn appointment until she is almost in her second trimester. For all we know.......we go off what she posts. If you come on here asking for advise it doesn't mean it's going to be the advise you want to hear. The baby has to live with the consequences too if something goes wrong and she didn't do anything about it. If somebody wants to go out and get drunk, smoke weed, and party every night while they're pregnant are you going to sit back and not say anything? Or are you going to warn them of the potential harm she's causing her baby?

 

PreciousBaby19 - November 17

Lol jen. Your funny

 

R__ - November 17

i'm not being nosy, it's just hard not to come across this stuff when it's all you see. i'm just interested in the d__n questions that need advice ok. and i rarely see any that have answers. like the last two pages are filled with questions that have no answers. but threads such as my own here that run a mile long. thank you for understanding or not my point of view. about the reason of the forum but i guess i could have missed the directions for the teen forum since it is so different. i believe i will head over to the 1rst trimester forum again. please do not follow me to hara__s me. because then i would be forced to act immature.

 

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