Is Cramps Normal

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ktitus - April 15

I'm on my period and last week I had unprotected s_x. Its only my second day so I'm not sure if I could be or not. But I've had really bad cramping and I barely ever get cramps. Especially not this bad. I have recently asked if you could get pregnant if u had s_x a week before your period and would your period be normal. Not many responded. But im just very unsure and I'm pretty sure its too early to take a pregnancy test

 

BrookieCookie - April 15

i know that you can even be on your period even while your pregnant up to like 5 monthes.. so there is a chance you are pregnant.. in about 2-3 weeks take a at home test and if it comes out negative but your not saticfied with jus that tests results then take another in a week or two...might ask though if you would want to be pregnant or if this was all unexpected...? good luck ~Brooke~

 

kt_tus - April 15

Brooke, Its very unexpected

 

BrookieCookie - April 15

Then i'm sorry. But believe me i was going through the same you are about 3 months ago and now here i am 16 years old and 13 weeks pregnant lol..i was so scared and didnt know what to do...but when i went to the doctor and heard the heartbeat i knew i couldnt give up my baby...it's ur decision if you r pregnant on what you do...i understand the difficult decision and i feel for you...if you dont mind me asking....how old are you and whats the situation with the possible father...?

 

kt_tus - April 15

I've had a scare before and I had no idea what I would do and I don't think I'd know till I'd be in the situation. Thanks soo much for the advise. I'm 16 I'll be 17 in 10 days and the father is my bf but Its a long distance relationship and he lives about 2 hours away. Kinda odd for high school relationship to be long distance but its actually great sometimes lol. How about you? Wheres the father?

 

BrookieCookie - April 15

The daddy is excited to be the father...he's goin to be 18 when the baby is born ( it's due Oct. 29 =] ) and i'll be a caouple months away from 17 when it's born...and he is now my fiance...i live with him and his family for now but when he turns 18 we're getting an apartment together...=] i guess my situation is bit better then yours if you are preg....what do u think you would do if you r pregnant abort, keep, put up....? jw....

 

kt_tus - April 15

Congrats on the engagement! And thats great that the father is excited. My bf has said that if I am he'd prefer the abortion but he'd be with me what ever my decision was. I honestly have no idea. I've thought about each option and I'm against abortion but I can't have a child right now. My mother had me when she was 18 and she doesn't want me to do the same thing and then I've thought about putting it up for adoption but I don't think I could do that either. Being with a baby for 9 months then not being able to raise it would be way too hard. So if I am i'll have a lot of thinking to do.

 

BrookieCookie - April 15

thank you!!!.......but i also do not agree with abortion....but my mom got pregnant with me at 14 & had me at 15...she was WOW..in the least words, upset when i told her...=/ but now after a few months of thinking it over she now is EXTREMELY excited to be grandma...at 32 might i add lol...but i promise you, when you get to hear the heartbeat or see the baby on an ultrasound it all becomes real...i've already fell inlove with my baby...& by the way...i personally think it's a girl!!!!! =] i just wow....idk.....it's so hard to say give it up or have an abortion...cause i know for myself..that i could NEVER forgive myself for it...=/ ughh....i guess im not much help....im sorry...=/

 

kt_tus - April 15

No your tons of help. I don't have many people to talk to about it so its great. Thanks for talking! :) I just don't want to think about it too too much and then me not be pregnant but its nice to consider my options first. One of my friends had an abortion and if she could take it back she would. And I don't want to be like that but I guess we'll just see what happens :)

 

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