MY BROTHER S G F

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ammeuse - March 12

HI .. JUST FOUND OUT TODAY THAT MY 17 YEAR OLD BROTHER'S G/F IS 7 1/2 MONTHS PREGNANT!! HAS BEEN HIDING IT ALL THIS TIME, NO MEDICAL CARE WHATSOEVER AND I AM VERY VERY CONCERNED .. HAS ANYBODY ELSE GONE THROUGH THIS WITH ANYBODY OR THEM SELF? .. I AM GOING CRAZY AND NEED SOME ADVICE .. I AM TAKING HER TO AN OB/GYN THIS WEEK, BUT I JUST NEED SOME ADVICE FOR HER IN THE MEANTIME .. THANKS -ALEXIS

 

babyonboard16 - March 12

Wow, I don;t have any advice but I'm saying good luck because if I were you I'd be ready to scream at her haha.

 

apr - March 12

I'm not saying it was clever what she did, but do remember that going back 80 years ago, women never saw a dr until their labour started, and many of them had healthy babies. DO NOT QUOTE ME WRONG. It is vital to get the correct prenatal care, but my point is that she can have a healthy baby if she hasnt seen a dr until now... Just by the way, how on earth did she manage to hide it until now?

 

EricaLynn - March 12

Prenatal vitamins would be a good place to start. Then a doctor visit. I wouldnt be too worried though, I have a friend who didnt even know she was pregnant until about 6 months along. She was still getting her period ect. And her baby turned out totally normal and healthy, so its not like there is no hope for her baby. good luck

 

SaraH - March 12

She is probably just fine. While I am a firm believer in prenatal care, and women should always make an attempt to get it when they know they are pregnant, there are many girls who don't get proper care and still have a normal healthy baby. Just get her to the doc and they will do tests (blood work, ultrasound, etc) and such that will help them know if she needs anything other then a normal prenatal for right now. Good luck and try not to worry, chances are both she and the baby will be fine.

 

freeflyingangel - March 12

She could very well have a healthy baby, i did and i never saw a doctor until i was eight an half months pregnant. as long as she hasn't been stupid and drank or did drugs or smoked everything i would imagine should be ok. I know what i did was stupid and i would change if i had the chance, what would of helped me is that there were people close to me that i could have trusted, don't be mad at her, support her from now on till the end 100% thats all you can do.

 

mari_drew - April 28

IM GOING TRU THAT RIGHT NOW IM 15 IN THE PROCESS ON TRYING TO GET MY PAPERS AND I VE ONLY BEEN TO THE DOCTOR ONCE AND THAT WAS BECAUSE I GOT A KIDNEY INFECTION AND HAD TO GO TO THE HOSPITAL IM 7 MONTHS PREGNANT ALL I CAN TELL YOU IS JUST EAT ALOT AND TAKE VITAMINES AND YOU SHOULD BE FINE. L;OVE YOUR FRIEND MARI

 

Grandpa Viv - April 28

There's 95% chance that mother and baby will do fine. If there is one thing a doctor hates it is having to deliver a baby whose mother has never been examined before. Get her to a doc pretty soon and you will be doing everyone a favor. Good luck!

 

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