Prostitute And Pregnant Help Asap No Time

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tortured - October 16

i got kicked out of my home when i was 14 and had to sell myself to survive. i always make the men use condoms i am now 17 and two months ago i was raped by a man who refused to wear a condom. to add to the trauma i am pregnant. i dont want to keep selling myself with a baby inside of me it makes me sick to think of it but i dont know how else to survive. i dont belive in abortion and couldnt give my baby up how ever its concieved. any advice please would be helpful. i am only in this internet cafe till my money runs out.

 

tortured - October 16

please i just want help. how can you say those things

 

jolee - October 16

oh you poor girl....i am feeling for you right now. You need to get to a pregnancy centre right away and get some help and advice. This a little life inside of you right now...part of you!! even tho this baby is the result of something so awful...he or she is half of you. I pray you make the right decision. where do you live? Please go to a help center. Please leave the life you are in and give this baby a future. a great place to find great female support is actually a local church. you can find some of the most loving, caring and helpful people there. Good luck dear

 

jolee - October 16

Whoever just made that last comment "yeah rite" YOU are the one who needs help. Where is your compa__sion!?!?! I am astonished by your heartlessness....you make me so sick.

 

jolee - October 16

"tortured" ...don't listen to a word "yeah rite" is saying.....

 

sha - October 16

dear tortured, i wasn't a prost_tute but i did sell my body once. i am now pregnant at 14 and i am in so much pain that i feel like i was raped. so i guess i can understand where you come from. what i think you should do is go to a shelter. i dont know if the place you live has one or not but if it doesn;t then go to a big church and tell them your story someone will help you. if all else fails then become a pusher and try to sail drug.

 

jolee - October 16

Don;t sell your body OR drugs...there is a better life out there for you

 

Lory - October 16

Dear tortured, I'm so sorry about what happened to you. Where do you live (if you don't mind me asking)? Maybe I could help you find a shelter or something in your area.....Even though you haven't lived the best lifestyle, NO ONE deserves to be raped or mistreated. You aren't disgusting, the person who did this to you is.....respond if you can.

 

Lory - October 16

yes! there can be a better life for you out there. start by going to a local church or shelter. They can get you on the right track to a better life. You can get you HS diploma or GED, and then go on to college and start a career and make a life for you and your baby. There are financial aid programs for colleges everywhere, along with free or reduced childcare. I am almost 30 wks pregnant, and I have what's called a "Baby Love" nurse (they are provided by social services in your county to anybody, rich or poor) They are very supportive and can help you get help in all kinds of ways, not just pregnancy. They even come visit you, and they can help you get free transportation to Dr. appts. etc.....

 

tortured - October 16

i live in the uk in london i dont no where i can find a shelter and i am very un religous.. for "you made your bed" of corse its rape i said no they beat me up and did things to me that i would not let people do. dont judge me.

 

Melissa - October 16

Whatever state you are in you need to apply for a__sistance. Housing a__sistance....medical a__sistance...any a__sistance that is available to you. Its ok to be on welfare honey. Its there for those times that get hard......use it to get ahead. I hope you are still in school...... there is adoption or you can keep the baby.....or abortion. Its your choice. PLEASE...just get out of your situation of having to sell yourself. There are other ways to make it sweetie.....Education is the best route if you want to succeed in life.

 

Melissa - October 16

Oh...and your 14!..your a minor..so how can your parents kick you out?....is htere such thing as foster care over there...where you are a ward of the court and are placed in a loving familys home to help take care of you?.....that is...if your parents dont want you.....they have endagered you b kicking you out...but what did you get kicked out for?

 

Melissa - October 16

ok..read it wrong...your 17...but you are still a minor..so what the hell?....

 

m - October 16

To.."you made your bed"....your advice would have been ok.....without all the other belittling comments....it really had nothing to do with giving this girl advice........So TORTURED~ignore her......and try to take in the other advice that was given......good luck in life

 

Sam - October 17

DON'T WORRY! go back to your family and BEG them for help! Or go to a doctors office to get help! DON'T GIVE UP HOPE!!!!

 

o.k. - October 17

your best bet would be to go to planned parenthood or a government office like foodstamp place, they can help you because you are a minor, best of luck

 

Tortured - October 17

http://www.keepyourbaby.com/open_adoption.html This site has many ways to support your self in a better way. Lots of luck and God be with you.

 

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