Should I Have Sex

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Anonymous - March 24

I'm 14 and sometimes I want to have s_x so bad. Me and my boyfriend have been talking about it and he wants to make sure I'm ready. I think I'm ready, but should I do it right now?

 

maya - March 24

well u should think about the consequences. what if u get pregnant or a disease. and if u do have s_x then use a condom and birth control

 

Grandpa Viv - March 24

Surveys of girls who have s_x at a young age show that nearly all say they wish they had waited. There is absolutely no way this boy is going to be the only love of your life. Most women have half a dozen "loves" before they settle down. If you do decide to have s_x, start by remembering that personal cleanliness is a virtue - wash hands etc. Discuss and work out the detail of contraception in the cold light of day. You should always use a condom no matter what day of the month, being sure that it has not been mistreated / old and thus likely to break. Learn yourself how to put it on him as part of foreplay and as a signal that your engine is warm. You should leave some slack at the end of it for the c_m, and there should be no air in the slack. When it is time to withdraw, reach down and make sure the condom comes out with the p___s. Lost condoms are no fun! In addition you should learn to recognize when you ovulate (the fertile window) and stay away from the 5 days before and couple of days after (usually days 8-16 of a 28 day cycle). I also suggest that you use a backup method such as foam or film for occasional s_x or the pill for regular s_x. The dollars can add up, but they are far cheaper than 18 years of child-raising. Don't even think of the "pull-out" method. Don't let s____n in any way shape or form get near your exposed v____a. Some experimentation on how to pleasure each other without regular s_x will help your later enjoyment. Once again, I think you will regret starting now - your self respect and respect among those who matter of your peers will suffer in the long run - but it's better to be prepared. Why don't you ask your parents how they feel aboiut this?

 

MOMMA2 - March 24

14 IS WAY TO YOUNG. YOUR FIRST TIME SHOULD BE SPECIAL NOT W/ ABOYFRIEND THAT YOU WILL NOT EVER REMEBER 10 YEARS FROM NOW. PLEASE WAIT UNTILL YOU ARE AN ADULT & CAN MAKE ADULT CHOICES. IF YOU AREN'T SURE THEN WAIT UNTILL YOU ARE. IF YOU HAVE TO ASK YOU ARE NOT. IT IS COMPLETELY NORMAL TO WANT TO HAVE s_x, BUT PLEASE WAIT

 

Kris - March 25

Just do it. It's alot of fun and in 100 years will it really mater at what age you had s_x? No! Live it up you only go around once. Just be safe like Viv said.

 

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