The Thing That Makes Me Sad

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GimmeaBub - September 23

When i miscarried 5 months ago i found this forum and i was nice to know others had been through the same thing. I met some very nice women, and being from the other side of the world it's always interesting. I joined the teen forum because i found i could help alot better, and I also felt i could relate to some of the Girls. I have found so many girls here are so Bright and full of love that i wouldnt doubt their parenting skills. I think it would be hard to be a teen parent, i really do but alot of these girls, they do it and get on with their lives, having a baby doesnt mean your dreams die, sometimes they are simply put on hold. I will be honest, i have nothing to hide i had an abortion at 18, I was stupid immature, and very selfish but i dont regret what i did because Its given me something to share with others, and it's also allowed me to grow into a more knowledgable young woman. I dont really mind what people think of me and my descion because you are ent_tled to your opinion i have been given nothing but support and love from family and friends from day 1. I have also learnt alot from these forums, about ttc. I swear all the stuff i have learnt i think i have grown about 50 new brain cells lol. But when women come on here and they degrade others they threaten, they abuse and they slander ones choice that makes me sad. You guys dont realise what we all have in common, the desire to have children to be a great mum, to provide as much love and care for a our children no matter what age, race or what country we are from. Who cares what financial situation your in, you will make it work, If your determined you CAN do it! Also to thoes who are considering a baby no matter what age you are listen to these girls advices, you know what a baby requires, a friend of mine volunteered at a day care when she wanted a baby and it really put things in perspecitive of what you will dealing with. Let alone everything else that goes with a Baby. Girls i am here to help out while i too am trying to concieve and i know how scary frusturating and emotional it can, but I am always here to help and offer advice. Best of Luck to you all and pay no attention to thoes who say awful things, you are the Mums of the future lets Be the best Yet! Baby Juice :)

 

GimmeaBub - September 23

Also if any other girls here are ttc i would love to know how your all going. I am due for Af next week, but we didnt really try this month we did the relax method lol. Fill me in and lets get pregnant together lol!

 

docbytch - September 23

GimmeaBub...I second exactly what you said. Much the same thing was posted by me in a thread called message of hope for teens.... I did it to give some positive feedback when this forum was yet, again...full of drama. Just seems that THIS time the drama got started due to a post of mine. Feel like I started WWIII... Wasn't my intent though.

 

GimmeaBub - September 23

Docbytch dont worry about it you have done nothing wrong like veryone else on here you came looking for help and advice and join a support group, this should have never been taken out of hand like it was, trust me these women who are starting this c___p dont realise, that they are only guest, and like fish they begin to smell after 3 days, pay them no attention and lets focus on what we are here for, lets stop adding fuel to the fire :). No matter what to me you have done no wrong :)

 

HeavenisMine - September 23

You're such a wonderful woman, do not worry about the opinions of the troll ma__ses who simply come here to bash then look for attention in doing so. and yes Docbytch, all you did was post a response to a topic that was on topic! We cannot be responsible for the careless actions of others.

 

Baliezer - September 23

You guys, I told you in the biggining that this person was a troll,(someone who comes on to forums to create drama) Coming from an adult I can see right through her. She wanted to get a rise out of you and it worked. Now look The top five forums are about her!! I bet she is estatic. Once more. IF YOU IGNORE HER AND NOT ANSWER HER, SHE WILL GO AWAY. She only wants attention and she is getting it. Don't take what she say's to heart because she is looking for shock value, and it's working. I cannot stand to see so many people upset. Let it go. She is a TROLL. Look up the word troll in google search.

 

HeavenisMine - September 23

I was not upset, simply confused by her. I know what you mean, I have a lot of trolls on another forum I am a part of. I don't understand the mind of a troll. They're weird!

 

Baliezer - September 23

yahIsaidIT- I am an adult. I am forwarding your comments to the editor. Please leave these teen girls alone. Please girls don't take these comments to heart. The proper authorites will deal with it.

 

docbytch - September 23

Baliezer...I am somewhat non-savvy when it comes to online forums. Like you, I am older than most of these women on this forum... Didn't really know about TROLLS. Feel kind of silly. Sorry!

 

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