This Is An Emergency

17 Replies
please help!!! - June 21

Ok this is real bad this has never happened to me before like everytime i go to the bathroom or i FEEL like i have to pee theres blood and it hurts REALLY BAD!!! do i have like a urinary tract infection or something because this hurts real bad and idk what it is like ill be sitting here and i feel like i have to pee and i go and like it like drips and it hurts sooo bad!!=( someone help me please!!

 

To: please help - June 21

Get to a Dr. Especially if you start vomiting w/ fever. How old are you if I may ask? It could be a variety of things but it sounds like you have a bladder infection and need antibiotics. Good luck :)

 

Jbear - June 21

It does sound like a bladder infection. You can get bladder infections even when you haven't been having s_x, so don't be afraid to tell your parents what's wrong so you can get treatment.

 

please help!!! - June 21

omg thank you jbear what do i say then??? ive been holding my urine??

 

to:please help - June 21

Im 15 yrs old and im soo scared right now i cant tell my parents ive had s_x but i really do think i have a urinary tract infection and thats probably what its from...=( my bf is gonna talk to his sister but what should i do?? will it pa__s or do i seriously need to go to a doctor i CANT tell my parents ive had s_x!!

 

Jbear - June 21

Tell your parents it hurts when you need to pee, and then barely any pee comes out. You can get bladder infections from wiping back to front, for example. Even infant girls can get them. It's not a STD, it's not anything to be embara__sed about, but if it's not treated the infection can spread to your kidneys, which can be very dangerous. If your parents ask if you've been having s_x, tell them you haven't been, if they're going to be unreasonable about it. Just make sure you see a doctor. And after this, be sure to pee right after you have s_x, because it helps to prevent bladder infections.

 

please help!! - June 21

thanks jbear... but like they wont have to like test me or anything if ive been having s_x will they because my mom always threatens me that she'll take me to the DR and find out.. and i have wiped back to front lol so i can say that but im still scared

 

please help!!! - June 21

and im bleeding is that from the s_x or is that just apart of the infection??

 

please help!! - June 21

one more thing i had protected s_x does that make any difference? or can i still get the infection even from that???

 

Jbear - June 21

Basically what causes the bladder infection is that germs from your a__s get to the urethra (where pee comes out). It doesn't matter how they got there, and since it's probably your own germs causing the infection, having s_x with protection (which it's really good that you're doing) won't prevent a bladder infection. Where are you bleeding from? Is it from the v____a, or above that where pee comes out? Sorry if that sounds gross, but it does make a difference. If it's where the pee comes out, it's probably an irritation from the infection. (That can happen with a yeast infection too, a little blood). You can ask your mom not to come in when the doctor examines you. If you have a pelvic exam (what they do at the gynocologist), there will be a nurse in the room while the doctor is examining you, so you won't have to be worried that anything improper will go on. I never let my mom go in with me when I went to the gynocologist. She always picked on me for my weight, and I didn't want her seeing me without pants. She was furious the first time I went, and I told her she could wait for me in the waiting room, but she got used to it after that.

 

please help!!! - June 21

please anyone with an answer!!!!!!=(

 

please help!! - June 21

I think its from wear i pee out of.. but if they do a pelvic wont that tell my mom if ive had s_x or not?!?!!?!? she cant find out!!

 

Jbear - June 21

I'm not really sure if the doctor can legally tell your mom if you've been having s_x or not. I think it depends on your age and where you live...when I was 16 I told my doctor I needed birth control and she told my mom it was to regulate my cycle.

 

please help!! - June 21

oh well im 15 and i live in florida.... do you think maybe i could go to my local health department and they can help me ?? because i know i can go there without a parent.. i can even go there to get birth control without parent consent...what do you think i should do im soo scared!

 

Jbear - June 21

I've been looking up stuff about doctor confidentiality and teens...it seems like it's up to the doctor. But I also read that in most states teens have a right to see a doctor about some matters without a parent's consent. So you could go to Planned Parenthood and recieve treatment without your mother ever knowing about it.

 

Jbear - June 21

I didn't see your last post until I had written mine. That sounds like your best option. then if it turns out to be something other than a bladder infection, your mother will never even know you went.

 

please help!! - June 21

its okay i have one more question .... ok my bfs sister is 24.. do you think she can take me to the gyno to get treated?? or do u think i would need a parent .. its just for an antibiotic right?? do you have a sn or something just so we dont have to keep replying like this if you do mines floridababe0365 (on AIM) thanks!

 

ADD A COMMENT:


You must log in to reply.

Are you New to the forum? Sign Up Here! Already a member? Please login below.

Forgot your password?
Need Help?
New to the forum?

Sign Up Here!


Already a member?
Please login below.





Forgot your password?
Need Help?