Tia Adoption

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Jen - October 3

Hi Tia. Your parents kicked you out!! I'm sorry to hear that. Where are you going to go? Can your parents legally kick you out at such a young age? Are you in school? Why do you have to leave your friends house? I feel bad for you, this must be a hard time for you. If you want, I can give you the name of the person and adoption agency I used with my son, maybe they can help you. After we talk, I will give you my name and you can tell them I sent you. They are so great, they don't force you to do anything you don't want. In fact, they will not find an adopted family until after the baby is born. This way if things get better and you change your mind after talking to them, it will be easier. I would love to adopt another child, I know it will happen when it's meant to. I don't want you to make a quick decision. Do you think your parents will change their minds and help you raise the baby or do you just not want a child at this time? I would never abandon my child and kick them out, I'm sorry you are in this situation. They should support you. You must be a tough girl. I wonder if your parents will have to sign for you if you decide adoption is right for you. Since you are so young, I would want to make sure we do everything right. I want to make sure you know everything and make sure you are aware of all your avenues. How many months preg are you? Are you friends parents nice, do they want to help you? I wish I could talk to you. I really do feel bad for you Adoption or no adoption, I would be happy to talk to you or see if I can help led you to some sort of help..if you feel like you need it. Well, please stay in touch. If you can email me to [email protected] with a way I can get in touch with you. Maybe by phone or cell phone or a friends email address. I wont bother you, we can just chat once if thats what you want. Anyway, if not email this message board back, I am very curious how things are going and what has happened to make your parents kick you out. Good luck to you, if I don't hear from you.

 

Jen-NJ - October 3

Another idea. If you know when you are going to be online, tell me and I can chat with IM. Do they have aol or MSN?

 

Jen - October 3

Tia, after thinking about your situation further. I'm not sure if I feel comfortable talking to you without your parents permission. You are so young and I don't want to feel like I mislead you in anyway. I think you should figure out what you are going to do about your situation before you start thinking about adoption. If you are in NJ, you should call Joanne Donavon from Catholic Charities in Trenton. She is really nice and maybe she can help you . You don't have to be catholic, I'm not but I really like her. She just tries to help people. Maybe she can help you. If you want to talk to me, I will talk to you an I want to talk to you...I just don't want to talk about adoption until you know everything and you are in a better situation.

 

UNKNOWN - October 3

Sounds like shes not interested tia probly already found some other girl 2 manipulate. Ure on ure own!!!!!

 

Tia - October 4

i cant help it i cant get my parents permision. they dont talk to me anymore. they told me they didnt want anthing to do with me or the baby then threw me out now they wont speak to me. i went round and they slamed the door in my face. my freinds parents wil only let me stay until i start proper showing then i have to leave. why doesnt anyone want me animore????? im not a bad person why doesnt anyone like my baby??????

 

Tia - October 4

These people you are talking about are all wrong. They are not doing the right thing for you, it's not you fault. Please let me know how I can call you or get in touch with you. This is not your fault and I do want to help you. I just want to make sure we do the right thing for you. Seriously, email me your friends phone number and I will call you. I don't care that it's your frineds house and they shouldn't either and who cares anyway. I will only call you when you tell me to, don't worry, trust me. Email me the number to [email protected] You need to get help, you deserve to be happy and loved.

 

Jen - October 4

and we are both from NJ. I will help you as much as I can......or help you as much as you want.

 

Jen - October 4

These people you are talking about are all wrong. They are not doing the right thing for you, it's not you fault. Please let me know how I can call you or get in touch with you. This is not your fault and I do want to help you. I just want to make sure we do the right thing for you. Seriously, email me your friends phone number and I will call you. I don't care that it's your frineds house and they shouldn't either and who cares anyway. I will only call you when you tell me to, don't worry, trust me. Email me the number to [email protected] You need to get help, you deserve to be happy and loved.

 

Tia - October 4

I hope you write me back, I really do wanna help you To Unknown, I am not manipulating any girls...if I was then I wouldnt care if she was making the right or wrong decision, I would just want her baby. She is young (13) and I want her to be sure of what she wants but at the same time I am worried about her. The poor girls parents kicked her out and she may have nowhere to go soon. Of course I want to adopt but it has to be what is right for the birthmother too. I don't want to just take a baby from somone. Tia is only 13 and I will help her if she lets me. When she is okay, she can start thinking about adoption.if she still thinks its a good idea....I would be VERY VERY happy to adopt her baby. So Tia, I am very curious where in NJ you live. I am im Somerset County, where are you? Again, please email me your phone number.I promise I will try my best to help you.

 

Jen - October 4

I hope you write me back, I really do wanna help you To Unknown, I am not manipulating any girls...if I was then I wouldnt care if she was making the right or wrong decision, I would just want her baby. She is young (13) and I want her to be sure of what she wants but at the same time I am worried about her. The poor girls parents kicked her out and she may have nowhere to go soon. Of course I want to adopt but it has to be what is right for the birthmother too. I don't want to just take a baby from somone. Tia is only 13 and I will help her if she lets me. When she is okay, she can start thinking about adoption.if she still thinks its a good idea....I would be VERY VERY happy to adopt her baby. So Tia, I am very curious where in NJ you live. I am im Somerset County, where are you? Again, please email me your phone number.I promise I will try my best to help you.

 

Tia - October 5

im in atlantic city. i dont know what to do i will have to think about it. i dont even know what to think. i supose i need to find somewere to live 1st

 

Jen - October 5

Okay, good luck. If you have nowhere to go or if you need help email me and I will help you. Don't worry, if wrose came to wrose.....You could come stay with us, if we connect and get along well. Email me if you need to, I wish you good luck.

 

Shorty - October 7

For F*&Cks sake Jen GIVE IT UP!!! Would you stop pushing girls into giving you their baby How psychotic is that??? And over the internet!!! Do you have any idea how dangerous that can be??? Obviously you have a few less brain cells then everyone else.. so STOP HARASSING pregnant girls... if they want to give their child up for adoption, they will do it the right way... via a legal, legitimate agency.. not in cyberspace

 

Jen - October 7

Just so that you know, it is legal to meet a birthmother over the Internet. You seem like you have had a bad experience or something. If you read my post you will see that I thought this girl was too young and I wanted her to get help. I am not here to force anyone to do anything but adoption is an option and believe it or not some people feel it's the best option for them. Sure going through an agency is fine to but it's the same thing, just a different way to meet someone. I think your post was a little overboard..saying I'm being psychotic. I just want a family. Well, you are instilled to your opinion and I respect that.

 

Shorty - October 7

What I am trying to Say Jen is that when a girl is pregnant ( planned or unplanned) they are a bag of raging hormones, their body is changing, they are scared, moody.. and most of the time are not in their right mind to be making a rational decision. They are scared and eaisily persuaded into things because they feel they cant handle the situation. Ease up on them.

 

Kay - October 8

I met my husband on the internet and we have been together for 6 years. The internet can be a great place to meet people! We all need to be careful in life and on the internet.

 

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