TO CHERYL

17 Replies
A - February 11

THIS IS NOT AN AGENCY, YOU ARE NOT GOING TO FIND AN INNOCENT TEENAGER WHO IS GOING TO HAND YOU A BABY OVER THE INTERNET.....YOU REALLY NEED TO GO TO AN AGENCY, THATS WHAT ITS THERE FOR, HAVENT YOU CONSIDERED OTHER OPTIONS....GO FIND A SURROGATE MOTHER.....BUT JUST DONT SIT IN FRONT OF THE COMPUTER ALL DAY THINKING YOUR GOING TO FIND SOME GIRL THATS WILLING TO GIVE UP HER BABY TO YOU..... FYI...THIS IS NOT A BLACKMARKET...

 

RE:A - February 11

I am not looking for a black market baby. I am looking to adopt legally. What are you some agency person who is upset because you loose money when people adopt independant private so you go around trying to dicourage people from doing adoption on their own? I know about adoption I have been through it before. It is all legal. So stop attacking me.

 

Jen - February 11

First of all I am an adoptive parent. I do agree that when you want to adopt a baby it's hard to think about anything else. You just don't understand and I'm sure she has looked into other options and this is also an option to find a match online. This is not crazy, it does happen and it can be good for the birthmother as well. There are birthmothers who are not ready and are sure they do not want a child. For those who are unstable, you can find those through an agency as well. An agency just matches you with a birhtmother. Why can't we try to find one on our own? Works the same, there are steps to adoption no matter what state you are from. Do you even know what a blackmarket is? You can't just pick up a baby!!! It can work and work out for both parties! Innocent teenager? These teenagers are smart and have had meny experiences that most adults have not. And what are you doing all day, sitting at the computer reading cheryls posts? I love this forum, it's fun to read the posts, whats wrong with that?

 

Cheryl - February 11

THANK YOU JEN! very well said

 

A - February 11

ok u know what these girls are very vulnerable at this time....if you tell them to give up their baby, they might just do that....this is not very professional. if i were these girls i wouldnt even have to think twice about giving my baby to u... i would say NO .......dont confuse these girls as they are already confused...

 

RE:A - February 11

You people keep crying out about these girls having choices. Well adoptive parents also have choices. We can choose to find a baby what ever way we choose to do it. We are not breaking any laws so get over it. We do not want to tell a girl to give up her baby we let her know that it is her choice. We do not coerce their decision in any way. We just let them know we are here if they choose adoption.

 

gotta go for now - February 11

I have to spend time with my family

 

Julia - February 11

Well, now it looks like we have a negative person.......Cheryl, Jen and myself are trying to adopt....we all have had to jump throw hoops of fire to even get approved to adopt.....so.....for those of you whom question our intentions we probably have more credintials to raise a baby than most people who run a agency.......we are just trying to love a child.not confuse anyone......myself..I have already met someone on here thinking she wanted to giver baby up until I met her and she was heart broken about giving her baby up......and I told her that I could not adopt someone baby that really wasnt sure. So that young lady decided to keep her baby and make away for it to work. So dont think that all people are so negative. We are not holding a gun to anyones head here you know. We offer support to those who want to raise their baby also. I have been where alot of you girls are and I was forced to have abortion.......I was young and dumb and didnt realize I had choices.....So i guess my punishment is not being able to have kids myself? I dont think so........every child is put on earth for SOME reason.....if not for birth mom maybe its a blessing for a family that cant have babys...or a family that just wants to help the child who needs love, stabilty and a real home. Good luck to all moms wanting to adopt and to those who are pregnant and not sure what to do just search your heart out.you will find truth there. If you decided to keep baby YOUR AWESOME !!!!!!!! if you decide to put baby up for adoption YOUR FANTANSTIC for blessing your baby. AND if you abort baby I WILL PRAY FOR YOUR STRENGTH TO GET THROUGH IT. You are not a bad person.......God still loves you anyway and you can be forgiven. Just make sure that YOU are making the decision for your child future not someone telling you what is best for you. You know yourself better than anyone. If you just want to talk email me anytime [email protected] PRAYER AND LOVE TO EVERYONE HERE!!!!!!

 

Mommy2Kylie - February 11

FYI this is a support forum, you don't like it, leave.

 

Julia - February 11

was I not being supportive? I thought I was.........

 

RE: JULIA - February 11

I agree. I think you are very supportive and seem like a very intelligent person.

 

A - February 11

ok im not going to sit here and argue about this... FYI... this site is called pregnancy info ...... not abortion info.........!!!!

 

RE: A - February 11

who's talking about abortion?

 

Mommy2Kylie - February 11

Julia- I wasn't talking to you, I was talking to the person who wrote this to you. They said "FYI THIS IS NOT A BLACKMARKET."

 

RE: A - February 11

You're right, this site is for "Pregnancy Info" and last time I checked and abortion had to do with pregnancy. I mean, come on, its not rabbits people are aborting. This is a site for people to come for advice, and they can, and WILL talk about abortion, as it has to do with getting pregnant.

 

Julia - February 11

LOL okay.........I understand I wasnt sure :) You right it isnt a black market.

 

Hilary - February 14

I just do NOT want someone to bully girls into adoption. I nearly was by my own foster parents. I understand the frustration a bit, yet I don't like I've said my future MIL adopted 4 children on a teacher's salary and she was 40 when she adopted the first, single. I guess I can't really RELATE to wanting to adopt, I'm sorry. I am just concerned about the girl that this board was made for-- pregnant teens.

 

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