Very Scared Someone Please Help

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Corrine321 - March 26

My boyfriend doesnt think i am pregnant with his baby =( ... I am currently 27 weeks and 5 days, and In september I got pregnant...My first day of my last period was the 14th I think... and well the 24th of that month I went to a party and had s_x with this one guy but he pulled out... But the thing is... every weekend my boyfriend and i had s_x he came in me and that was more then once.. well the day after the party he came in me to... so what are the chances of it being the other guys?!? out of 100%?

 

maren - March 26

Hun no one can tell you what the percent is its probably low because he did pull out but the chance is still there. It sounds like the only way your boyfriend will take full responsibility for this child is to have a paternity test done. If im thinking correct you have posted a few questions similar to this. I cant imagine how hard this is on you and if i was you i would tell him "well if you wont believe me that this baby is yours then at least be here for me and wait til the baby is born to deny it or accept it" Honestly to me it just seems like he is scared because i think you have said that he was accepting that the child was his, he is just scared just like you get scared. I know that i wasnt to much help but thats just what i would have done good luck and i hope hes not hard on you.

 

Corrine321 - March 26

Maren- My boyfriend doesnt want nothing to do with me if its not his kid.. when ever we get in fights he yells at me and says its not even my f**king kid and stuff.. and he makes me cry everynight.. I know its a high chance of it being my boyfriends... but will we be able to tell when the baby is born... somehow.. like looks or something.. before the dna test?

 

Esmie - March 26

"but will we be able to tell when the baby is born... somehow.. like looks or something.." Going by looks is not at all reliable. The only way to *know* for sure is a DNA test.

 

Corrine321 - March 26

Esmie, i understand that but what do you think the chances are of the other guy being the dad...???

 

Grandpa Viv - March 26

You most likely ovulated September 28th. There may have been some sperm surviving after pull-out on the 24th, but there sure would have been a lot more from a full shot on the 25th. I would give it a 95% or greater chance that the baby is by your boyfriend. A paternity test will tell for sure.

 

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