What Are The Chances Had Sex While Ovualating

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jordan - March 7

Hey everyone, if anyone could help i would greatly appreciate it! Okay so heres the deal... My boyfriend and I had s_x on the 5th of March. I was talking to one of my girlfriends and I explained to her waht happend. We get our periods at the same time and she was like OH MY GOD why would you do that? and i was like what do you mean and she explained to me that i was most likley was ovulating. Because last month ( feb) i got my period on the 22nd and I guess I then would ovulat any where from the 2nd to the 7th....he came in me... and now im so scared its only been 2 days so what are the chances of me being pregnant? is it really that common?

 

Rosanna - March 7

Having s_x before or during ovulation can make you pregnant. I am married and my husband and I are trying to get pregnant. When I ovulate we really try. We have only been trying for two months. I post on this forum because I am a fairly young wife. Also, many girls on here are not mature and cannot give proper help. Please post any questions. I will help as best I can. Best of Luck!

 

Grandpa Viv - March 7

Your girlfriend is right. March 5th would have been Day 13, the most fertile day of a 28 day cycle. The chance of pregnancy is about 1 in 3. Call 1-800-230-PLAN or visit http://ec.princeton.edu to get emergency contraception NOW. It has a good chance of saving the situation if taken within 72 hours.

 

jordan - March 7

Rosanna, Hey thnx a lot for writing back you are very right a lot ppl in this chat thing dont know what they are talking about. So are my chances high? Because I cant take a test untill I miss my period or atleast later on in the month ... so what do you think?

 

jordan - March 7

grandpa Viv, hey thanx for writng back. So thr 5th would be most fertile? wow thats scary. I dont believe in any form of abortion. I dont know what to do cuz i also dont want a baby but i have to deal with what comes i guess

 

jordan - March 7

does ne one else have ne thing to say? any advice or thoughts would be great! thnx

 

Rosanna - March 7

As Grandpa Viv pointed out your chances are about 1 in 3. You can take an EPT test up to 4 days before your missed period, however for accuracy I would take it on the day of a missed preiod or there after. The tests can be wrong. Excuse the personal question but, are you cycles regular?? If so, I would wait a week after a missed period and then to the Doctor to confirm a prenancy or not! They can do blood, or urine tests which are accurate. Any other questions just ask! Best Wishes!

 

jordan - March 8

Rosanna, thnx agian for writing back. Yes my periods are very regular, im like clockwork ...every 28 days. I've never been in this situation before because my boyfriend has never came in me. I just dont see myself getting an abortion, I don't thinkn I could handle that. I am 16 by the way.Very young to have a child. My boyfriend and I are very stable and he is graduatng this year and moving tinto his own place in July. So I suppose its an alright sistuation but do you think i could handle it? do you have kids?

 

Rosanna - March 8

If you are willing to put the baby first, always, then I think you could handle it. I know people who had their childen at age 16 and did fine. Just remember a baby needs the same things we need!! And then some. You sound very mature and as long as both of you take responsibility I don't see why you would fail as parents. Sadly, no we don't have children. But, we are trying!! I work in a Daycare full time and am also a CNA.

 

jordan - March 9

rosanna- yeah I agree. Im so caught up in my own thoughts because there is a very good chance that I could be pregnant but there is always the chance of not. Its only been 4 days... BLAH! Do you know if everyone spots when they are pregnant? Because on the ovulation chart that I was reading i says I should spot on the 19th cuz thats when the baby attaches itself to the wall... so if i experience spotting should I take that seriously? My boyfriend and I had a long convo about all this and he thinks that if i am we should raise the child. But if Im not then Im going to get on the pill or shot right awa cuz i can handle this am i , am i not c___p!

 

Hope it helps! - March 9

If, as it sounds by your post, you are not trying to get pregnant YOU STILL HAVE TIME TO TAKE THE EC PILL. The emergency contraception pill is not abortion (the egg has not yet moved down into the uterus, etc..) and it can be taken up to five days after intercourse to greatly reduce the risk of pregnancy. To answer your question: not everyone's ovulation cycles line up the same way with their menstrual cycles - your friend is right that _generally_ ovulation and fertility occurs at that point in your period, but you can only be sure with carefull monotering of your basal body temperture and the consistancy of your cervical discharge. Not everyone's cycles are the same. Also: if you are not trying to get pregnant you would be wise to use protection or birth control (I could not figure out from your post whether or not you had been already.) Information about birth control should be readily available through your doctor. Remember: you need 2 forms of birth control (pill + condom or some equivalent) for it really to be effective. Yes, it is possible that you are pregnant, you will not be able to know for sure without a pregnancy test (remember - false neg. is much more common than false pos. so if you get a neg. result take another different kind of test.) If you are trying to get pregnant - best of luck. If you are not - you still have time for the EC pill, and again, best of luck.

 

jordan - March 9

to :hope it helps: Hey Thanks so much for all the info! I really appreciate it!!! No I'm not trying to get pregnant, but if I am I will go threw with it and try to handle it. Your information really helped me a lot! I have 2 test that I am waiting to take until the end of the month. One ClearBlue digital and one kind where you pee in a cup and then use a dropper to test it. Im going to wait atleast until the 19th. I should be getting my period on the 21st and if i dont then ill do the one where you pee in the cup cuz my friend says those are more sensitive...is that tru? Hope so! Well if there is anything else you know let me know! and thankyou so much for responding it really helped. Do you have kids?

 

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