Why Do You All Ask The Same Questions

25 Replies
Noodle - February 7

why when people log onto the teen pregnancy they ask the girls all the same questions. do you have your own home insurance etc etc. OF CORSE NOT thats an obvious one! these girls are looking for support, some are very young but they are needed help no matter what. they have got themselves into a situation they need advice, not the same dumb stupid questions. i was 17 when i fell pregnant. i married my partner so it does happen even if you skeptics think it doesnt. i married my husband 4 months after my daughter was born, and we have been so blessed with our baby. back off of these girls, because you'd be judging them for having an abortion if that was their option!

 

xoxticiaxox - February 7

I totally agree with you! How old are you now?

 

Noodle - February 7

im 19 now, and me and my husband are trying for a second baby, as we want our children to go to school in close years, due to they can protect each other from bullies etc

 

xoxticiaxox - February 7

Yeah that makes sence, I cant get married here untill I am 19, and I dont think we can afford it anyways!

 

Noodle - February 7

my parents paid for our wedding otherwise we couldnt have either. but my husband had already asked me to marry him 10 mobnths before we found out about my daughter. and i was treated horribly and like i was thje stereotype mum who wants beneits and a flat when it wasnt like that at all. and i live in england so i was legal age!

 

Nerdy_Girl_10242006 - February 7

yeah some questions shouldn't be asked, but sometimes the pressuring is good on us...I know it helped me out, although I didn't look at it as a bad thing since it comes from someone who has been in my situstion. If someone who had no idea what it is like came and asked me the same questions I wouldn't respect it as much

 

xoxticiaxox - February 7

oh my, my parents hate my bf, so they wouldnt pay for it, and his family speds all there money on bingo...so they woudlnt pay for it either! He has talked about asking me to marry him, and he refers to me as his fiance! I understand what you mean about critisizm...its hard!

 

Noodle - February 7

yeh but i just think its unfair that 13 year old girls feel like they need to have babies in order to mean something. but thats not their fault they feel that way. so they could do with support no just c___p.

 

Noodle - February 7

do you know, it doesnt have to be expensive to be married. i know people dream of a big wedding., but if your getting married to get married it doesnt really matter about the glam

 

xoxticiaxox - February 7

Oh I know that, but its like 1000 dollars to get it done in a court house here, and then even more in a church! we really need that money for the baby right now.

 

Nerdy_Girl_10242006 - February 7

I agree, but there is a line between feeling that way and acting on it...when they are 25 they will give advice to other 13 year olds in there position and tell them thats how they felt and that they should have waited. Its part of the never ending cycle, support is the best thing to give in times such as these and I would want to give support knowing I am 18 and pregnant...but sadly there are people out there who don't know the limits in situations like these. But I do agree, and thats why I say I would just respect it more from someone who has been there, it isn't fair to be pounded on and hurt when we are already feeling morning sickness, sore brests, and every other thing in the book.

 

Noodle - February 7

1000 dollars! oh my gosh in england our church cost 400 pounds which is like 750 dollars to you. we spent a total of 3000 on our wedding which is like 5000 dollars

 

Noodle - February 7

i hear ya. these girls are going to get enough grillings from everywhere else, we of al people should be supportive

 

xoxticiaxox - February 7

wow, Im coming to england then lol!

 

Noodle - February 7

it is really good. my wedding dress cost 600 pounds which is like 1100 dollars, which isnt alot and it was a stunning dress

 

Nerdy_Girl_10242006 - February 7

wow, I wish I had a real wedding....I got married in front of a judge because I didn't want mine or his parents to pay for our wedding since he and I were already living together

 

xoxticiaxox - February 7

Just have a big party based on a wedding, that way you can still have the fun of the wedding...when you can aford it ya know...Thats what I want to do!

 

ADD A COMMENT:


You must log in to reply.

Are you New to the forum? Sign Up Here! Already a member? Please login below.

Forgot your password?
Need Help?
New to the forum?

Sign Up Here!


Already a member?
Please login below.





Forgot your password?
Need Help?