Why Do You Want To Discourage

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Cheryl - February 17

Going through adoption is a hard process for the adoptive parents as well as the birth parents. We don't need people making it harder. Negative comments only hurt the situation. They certainly do not help anything. I am tired of people telling us we have to go to an agency. We do not have to adopt through an agency and I refuse to go to an agency. I can adopt again the same way I did last time. If I want to come to this forum I have just as much right as the adoption agencies who are floating around here in disguise trying to lure young girls into their agency. To them the girls are just a #. To adoptive parents the girls are a part of our family for a lifetime. According to the US CONSTITUTION everyone has the right to the pursuit of happiness. That is what I am doing. I am pursuing happiness for a mother a child and my family.

 

KM - February 17

What you are doing is not wrong.But I think you should stop making every post about you wanting to adopt. You're making yourself sound really desperate, and when you're a young pregnant girl, you don't want to feel like you're being hounded to give your baby away. No offence. I do think you are very helpful to the girls on this forum, and adoption is a good thing. I would just ease off a bit.

 

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