Y DOES SEX HURT 4 ME

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IN PAIN - October 4

i'm naive when it comes to this whole thing with s_x. me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 yrs and are in love. i know i'm only 19 but i can't help my feelings for him. we have been having s_x for some time now ( don't know exactly but over 7 times) He enjoys it very much but it hurts for me. we are both eachothers first and not experienced so we are learning as we go. i heard it hurts if you wait a long time. is that true? it hurts so bad that i wait a month or two before tryin it again. don't think i'm wierd bur are there any positions i could try to stop the pain or something? and how long does it take for the hymen to grow back?

 

to "IN PAIN" - October 4

I'm glad to hear that someone is still waiting till there good and ready for s_x.I wish I could help.it has been a few years and I really don't rember my first few times.I'm replying because there could be other things going on that is making it uncomfortable.I would incourage you to get checked out and get birth control(if you didn't already)

 

mel - October 5

A friend of mine is in the same boat as you. She has had s_x 3 times, but unlike leaving a month, she waits about a year between each time. After talking to a few people about it, it might be safe to get it checked out. There may be something not quite right inside, and it might be something simple that can be fixed quickly. This friend of course doesn't listen to us, and is still as bad as ever, and I think she has given up. There is also one other friend of mine that was the same (it's not that uncommon) but her problem was that a certain part inside hadn't seperated, causing it to be painful as there were two hold, well kind of, and it wouldn't correct itself. After a 15 min operation, she is now fine, and hasn't had any probs since. I'm not saying that you'll have that, but know that your not the only one out there. Goodluck with it

 

Natalie - October 5

Depending where the pain is can depend on why it hurts. i used to get excessive pain in my abdomen during and after having s_x. this was caused by having a t_tled cervix. (i fell pregnant and the pain went away, which is one of the only ways to get rid of the pain and problem my doctor says.) i used to just stick it out, but after telling my partner it was causing me pain, we tried other positions. if your getting abdominal pain, the kneeling position could help to take the pressure of your tummy. i would just try different positions until you find a comfortable one. it may also be that your v____a is not large enough for him and he may be penetrating you much to far. just try out various things until you find something more comfortable. and remember, even if it hurts you can still get pregnant from having s_x so always use protection

 

for in pain - October 5

I'm not going to repeat any of the answer.I would be safe and get checked out regardless.once you reach a age,esepcialy start having s_x getting a check up once a year is the responsble thing to do.most importantly remember if ther is somethig wrong(even minor) it dosn't mean you sleep around.I hope this dosn't come off as rude.I do believe that he is your first.I just know that fear of being judge would go through some girls minds

 

....To in pain - October 5

this is a teen pregnancy forum, you really need to consult a doctor about your problems.

 

keller - October 5

the problem may not lie with you. it may be that your boyfriend has an unusually large p___s. Your future holds much heartache.

 

March_Mommy06 - October 6

Hey, I know how you feel. My first was extremly large and it hurt for like 6 months and we tried a lot. Try lubricants!! And condems make it easier too! What about you on top? Sometimes that helps to get it in there! Lol, sorry for the terminology, but its true.

 

March_Mommy06 - October 7

To the idiot known as "My theory"....GROW UP. Some people actually do have real questions and real brains! You should look into something on Nick Jr for your level :)

 

to march mummy - October 7

Maybe my ideas are to advanced for your level of education. i am taking a psych course where we are learning the importance if nature over nurture. the professor had us watch a movie about people who maybe born male or female but are changed to the other s_x at birth. this procedure began in the 50's so since "in pain" was born after th 50's this could have happened to her. don't blame me because you are ignorant to the ways of the world

 

ROSE - October 7

SWEETHEART EITHER YOUR BOYFRIEND HAS A LARGE ONE OR YOUR JUST REALLY SMALL. ITS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. WHEN YOU HAVE s_x AND YOU WAIT SO LONG TO HAVE s_x AGAIN YOUR......UM HOLE? GETS BACK TO ITS TINY SIZE SO ITS GONNA KEEP HURTING TILL IT GETS USED TO IT. NOW IF YOU HAVE s_x EVERYDAY YOU WOULD GET USED TO IT FASTER.....ITS CALLED GETTING LOOSE? SO DONT WORRY TELL HIM NOT TO GO SO DEEP AND TO GO SLOW...WAITING A MONTH OR TWO BETWEEN IS TOO LONG.... YOU'LL TAKE FOREVER TO GET USED TO IT LIKE THAT. MAKE SURE TO TALK TO YOUR BF ABOUT IT SO HE UNDERSTANDS TO BE A LITTLE MORE GENTLE. GOOD LUCK!

 

to to march mummy - October 7

The procedure began and ended shortly thereafter, today hermaphordites are usually left to choose which s_x they are. Occa__sionally, the parent may chose a s_x,but they are generally encouraged to let the child decide. I am sure in pain wasn't born a hermaphrodite but is just finding s_x painful as is common amongst most virgins. Try the lubrication, and condoms as some one else suggested. Also this is a good time to get birth control pills and visit your gynocologist. Please be safe.

 

in pain - October 11

thanx rose

 

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