39 Weeks Hate My Husband Please Help

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lisa - October 14

hi Im39 weeks pregnant and cannot stand my husband anymore, the relationship has been gradually disinigrating, he drinks, is totally inconsiderate, never help[s with anything, we havent had s_x or kissed almost since conception, i have no respect for him because he is so useless at everything, he wants to go work out of the country and if i wasnt 39 weeks pregnant, he would be long gone, tonight i feel like i dont want him to be at the birth, he dropped curry over our new white carpet then stood there watching me scrub and try to clean it up without helping. If i ask him to go now though, the child will never know the dad, i think he would be good with the child but hasnt a clue how to be a father, hes just off out the dor now to get p___sed, then he will come back at 3 or 4 in the morning and trash the place, aghhhh

 

:( - October 14

lisa i am sorry to hear that you are in a situation that is putting strain on you. You have to look deep inside yourself to figure out what you want. You don't have much time before the baby comes so you should focus all of your energy on yourself. I am not sure that my advice is what you would do, but if it were me, i probably would not focus any of my attention on him. Let him completely fend for himself. I think men often need a dose of their own medicine. We as women are often nurturers by nature, and no matter how hard it is at times, we are always the ones trying to make it work. Maybe you could spend some time with your family or friends for a little while. Whatever it is, do something for yourself, you deserve it. Good luck. I wish nothing but happiness in the future for you.

 

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