Finding Myself Annoyed

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~S~ - August 10

I'm just wondering if anyone else is feeling this way....I'm finding myself somewhat annoyed or irritated with daily comments from people such as "how are you feeling??, You're still here?!?!?, Your getting SO BIG!!, It's almost time!!!!!, can you feel the baby kick????" When someone asks me how I'm feeling, I want to snap back "PREGNANT!" or if they make a comment of me still being here, I want to say "Can you see me? because if you can, then YES I'm still here" and I especially hate it when people make comments about how big I am. I'm well aware of how huge my belly is, I don't need the daily reminder. *sigh* I know it's natural for people to make these comments to a pregnant lady, but do they have to do it on a daily basis. There's one lady at my work who really irritates me. Everytime she sees me, she has the same ol comment of how big I am, the fact that I'm here suprises and how she "loves to watch pregnant laides waddle" Honestly!! I don't know if it's just me, but I'm getting really bored of talking about the same stuff to the same people. Don't get me wrong, I've had a great pregnancy, it just there's times when I want to be left alone, or not talk about how pregnant I am.

 

Tammy - August 10

~S~, AMEN! Especially other women. Most have been in our shoes before, they must honestly forget what it is like. If one more person asks me how I am holding up in this heat, I'll scream. Do we have a choice? Even my mom gets on my nerves. I see her about every 2-3 weeks and when I see her, she has a comment. I am due at the end of October and people are always saying how much longer I have to go and oh, how I am pregnant the entire summer. Really! The other comment that makes me crazy is when I get annoyed and someone says that it's my hormones. I got a news flash for them, they always annoyed me.

 

~S~ - August 10

Yeah, the heat comment bugs me too "Wow, this heat must really get to you, huh!!" I want to say "Yeah, it does, you know why? BECAUSE IT'S SUMMER!!! I'm sure it gets to you too!" But of course I don't say that out loud, instead i put on a fake smile and say "When I'm outside, yes, but my house has air conditioning, so I stay in" I swear I am NOT going to be making comments like these when I see a pregnant lady.

 

Tammy - August 10

It had never occured to me to makes comments to a pregnant woman considering I have been there before. All three of my kids will be born in October, the same week. When people find out I am due again in October they always have the same comment: "You better find something else to do in January", or you must only be fertile once a year. haha! So d__n annoying!

 

Natasha - August 15

I dont mind somone admiring my big belly or laughing with me about my waddle. My co-workers always have something to say or ask every day and I kinda like the attention and concern. What burns me up is for someone to say " you dont look that pregnant" or "your not showing that much" HELLLO, I have a huge belly and I cant see my feet, I am 30 wks and Hell yes I look pregnant. My belly is not normally this big you idiot! At my brother's wedding, His wife's mother was talking to me in the buffet line and she had the nerve to ask me if I had my baby yet! I had a maternity shirt on, and a bulging belly. I put my hand on my belly and said 2 more months to go. She said "Oh, you dont look pregnant, you should wear that outfit more often. You looked pregnant at the shower.." Hey, I know I have gained some weight okay, but this big watermelon in front of me is not natural even on a fat chick! Hubby says people are just trying to be nice by saying that. What is nice about insinuating that they thought you had a sumo wrestlers belly?

 

Here's - August 15

your sign. I am sure most everybody has heard this phrase. After all it's only second to "I'm Rick James, b___h" and tied with "Git 'er done" See if it works.

 

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