Single And Scared

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Danielle - January 29

I am 23 years old and I am pregnant by someone in another state. My boyfriend of 2 years dumped me and I got pregnant by someone I didn't love. My ex finally took me back and I left the daddy. He wasn't the greatest person in the world. He didn't have a job and he smoked and drank. I don't. But I moved back to my ex's and he promised me to take care of me and the baby and said that he loved me more than anything. But I was scared and afraid of what was going to happen and i wasn't as affectionate towards him. I still loved him deeply, i was just scared. Well a week before Christmas he kicked me out saying he didn't love me AGAIN for the 3rd time in a year. Now i don't know what to do. The daddy I heard actually has kept a job for 4 months and has straightened up. What do I do? I am so scared and hurt. My ex even let his new girlfriend answer the phone!!! he is 43 i thought people didn't play those games anymore?

 

Naomi - January 29

I did it on my own. I have 2 boys that i was raising on my own for years, when i had my youngest my family helped pitch in and helped me out until i could get back to work and other than their support and thier telling me that i could do anything i wanted that was it. You can manage just as i did. I would let them both go and think about you and your baby that is all you need to worry about! It took me years to find a man who treats me great loves my kids and would do anything for me. we got married in august, and are now expecting our 1st baby together but will be our 3rd boy! I truely believe that if you take care of yourself and your baby that someday mr right will come along and you will be happy too, sometimes we just all need to go through lifes trials and tribulations to get the things we truely deserve outta life. If you want to chat let me know my email is [email protected] I will try to help you emotionally as much as possible, Like i said i have been there and life does get better! you just have to keep your chin up and have faith! let me know if you want to chat or something.

 

Danielle - January 29

Thank you so much for your advice. It just hurts so badly. My email is [email protected] I would love to talk to you. Thank you again

 

PrnzGroupie - February 1

Danielle, Be strong, have faith, and keep your cool. You will be able to do this on your own! Remember there are support groups out there to help you (ask your doctor for ones in your area). My two youngest sisters both did it single and on welfare. They now each have a beautiful child, a great job and a nice home. It can be done. Hang in there!

 

CARRIE - February 21

DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT THE GOOD THING ABOUT BEING A WOMEN IS THAT WE WERE BUILT TO BE STRONG DURING TIMES LIKE THIS. I'M 24 AND MY DAUGHTER IS 2 HER FATHER DUMPED ME FOR SOMEONE ELSE WHEN MY CHILD WAS A MONTH OLD. I HAVE BEEN DOING IT ON MY OWN SINCE. YOU'LL MAKE IT JUST PUT YOUR CHILD FIRST AND EVERYTHING ELSE WILL COME INTO PLACE.

 

maggie - March 10

Hi Danielle, I am 19 and expecting any day now. I'm going to college at the same time. My advice to you is don't dwell on the past. Keep your baby healthy and everything will be fine. Things happen for a reason so don't let it get you down. If I can do it you can too!!

 

Monica - March 12

Hey dont give up, Get a DNA test done and child support and love that baby more than anything. I was 17 and in foster care when I got pregnant the first time. Her father pays the support so we leave him alone. When my little girl was 3 I met my husband he loves her as much as he loves our boys. steph is 6 now, CJ 17 months, and Zac is due in mid May. So dont give up you can do it just remember what is important - the baby! If you get involved in church ( I dont know if your a christian or not) they will help you.

 

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