I Am Surprised At The Stupidty Of The People On This Board

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Premiemom - November 3

this is insane, taking medications not rx to you so you can increase your chances of a multiple birth, which could lead to premature babies, with numerous health problems. You all need a reality check. Maybe go spend the day in a NICU

 

Gemma - November 3

I agree as this is messing with nature.

 

OH GET OVER IT!!! - November 3

GIVE ME A BREAK!!! MESSING WITH NATURE..DONT MAKE ME LAUGH!!!LOL!!! YOUR MESSING WIHT NATURE TAKING MEDICATION FOR ANYTHING....THE IAM BEING TO FOOL THE DISEASE, TO FOOL THE IMPERFECTIONS THAT NATURE HAS PROVIDED US.... SUTPIDITY IS ON YOUR PARTS BECASUE YOUR IGNORANT YOU R THE KIND OF PEOPLE WHO WILL BE 65 SITTING IN THE CORNER OF YOUR HOMES WITH YOUR YOUNG GENERATIONS OF FAMILY MEMBERS...BABBLING AWAY...'IN MY TIME...BLA BLA BLA....IN MY DAY BLA BLA BLA...'YOUR YOUNG FAMILY WILL LOOK AT YOU AND THINK 'POOR OL' LADY AH BLESS....' WHAT DOES SHE KNOW LET HER RANT!' YOU NEED TO SORT YOURSELVES OUT AND LEARN TO ACCEPT THAT THINGS ALWAYS CHNAGE AS SCIENCE GETS MORE ADVANCED SO WILL PEOPLE'S CHOICES... DON'T AIM FOR A LIFE OF LONELINESS..REMEMBER YOU HAVE CHILDREN WHO WITH THEIR PARTNERS MAY MKE CONTROVERSIAL AND EXTREME CHOICES....NOT TO KEEP AND OPEN MIND NOT TO BOTHER TO UNDERSTAND THEIR DESIRES...WILL RISK LOOSING THEM!!!GET OUR OF THE 20TH CENTUARY MENTALITY!

 

mama-beans - November 3

HELLO Yas2000! Although I do think medications are necessary, I think the point that was trying to be made was that this is going to an extreme, and that Gemma and Premiemom really think it is rediculious. There is advancement, and there is abuse. Illegal use of a controlled substance is abuse... in my opinion.

 

Amanda - November 3

My twin boys were delivered 3.5 weeks ago -- at 29w 4d gestation....they were conceived naturally, I took excellent care of myself, quit work at 18 weeks gestation.....but one of the waters broke suddenly and the doctors said there was indication of some fetal distress, so the next thing I knew, I was numb from the ribcage down and my babies were surgically delivered. Now, everyday I go to the NICU to see them -- at first I could hardly touch them because of their delicate states....my baby A dropped below 2# a few days after birth. I have see them poked and prodded...such tiny little cries, and I am powerless to make it all better. It will probably be well into december before they can come home...and then, they are at increased risk for everything RSV, SIDS..you name it. Even still, I know I am luckier than a lot of women -- so many who's multiples never make it to the age of "viability"....you don't want to be there do you? Please think of the children before shooting for "three or more" as one person on here said. Thanks for reading...

 

Gemma - November 4

To Primiemom: There is no need to have multiples though in my my opinion. If you get pregnant naturally with them then great but if not you should just be happy having the one and try for another baby later.

 

!!!I AM NOT YAS??? - November 4

I DO AGREE WITH YOU MAMA BEEN THAT DRUGS AND MEDICATION SHOULD NOT BE ABUSED! BUT THE THEAD HAS STARTED OF SO NEGATIVE CALLING US STUPID...I HAD TO BIGHT BACK....PEOPLE SHOULD KNOW THE RISK GET THEIR DOCTORS INVOLVED WHERE POSSIBLE AND STOP IF THEY REALIZE THEY CANNOT HANDLE THE CONSQUENCES. I HAVEN'T STARTED CLOMID YET HAVE SUSPECTED PCOS AMD AM PLANNING TO GO ONTO CLOMID AS SOON AS DOCTOR ALLOWS ME TOO...BUT IF I CANNOT WAIT (AS WAIT IS FOR 6 MONTHS PLUS UP TO 2 YEARS) SO I HAVE DECIDED TO MAYBE ORDER IT AND TRY MYSELF FIRST!ITS MY CHOICE MY DECISION AND MY REASONS AND I DON'T THINK ANYONE HAS THE RIGHT TO CALL ME STUPID IF I DO!

 

.*. - November 4

I have to say that the potential problems for the innocent baby does bother me. Just let the stupid people do stupid things. They won't listen or learn because they are STUPID. Don't waste your breath (or finger muscles). This just makes them more wanting to prove us wrong by getting pregnant with mulitples. I have made many friends with multiple moms and sevveral of them were weeks away from their due date and still lose one. With twins, you have a much bigger chance of a stillborn. I believe about 5% chance. Talk about a life changing event when you know you aren't at fault. Could you imagine knowing that your stupidity caused your baby to die. It would be easy to brush it off now since it hasn't happened but once you are emotionally involved, you will never be the same.

 

thats the only word you know? - November 4

obvioulsy you must be stupid yuorselves as that seems the only word you know..infiltrating it on all other boards your obviously the same stupid person repeating her sentences again and again...your limited voabulary and your idealistic views suggest to me your still in high school and stupid enough to get pregnant and have a kid as kid!!!

 

Tripletmom - November 4

It is useless trying to talk sense into ignorant, SELFISH people. If this did not involve POOR, INNOCENT little babies, it wouldn't bother us as much. I believe that I can speak for most of us who oppose the use of clomid ONLY to conceive multiples when I say that we dont want these babies to suffer for uneducated, ignorant and selfish reasons!!!

 

mama-beans - November 5

Oh sheesh.. that just solidifies my vote that you are, indeed, Yas2000.... anyone who read through the old posts and saw her posts would see that she is a lier... "poor lady" oh you make me laugh!! Yas2000, you have never said anything that was fact. You have never given advice based on experience or research. What you HAVE done, by your own admission, is NOT read through posts, and write nonsence that could actually HURT someone (or their baby). Go away. Your "advice" is damaging. And please, stop with the whole "this is not Yas" c___p. You have given the same "advice" this time around that you did last time you visited these boards.. just this time you are too chicken to admit it is you.

 

mama-beans - November 5

And we have already read on your old posts that your "Genuine Reason" for wanting twins is because your husband doesn't want any more children so you plan to "accidently" get pregnant with two because you want two more. Yep. Great reason to risk babies. Please.

 

Jill - November 5

To YAS, I think it is so ignorant for you to call the mothers of babies born premature stupid and selfish. They are trying to help you and your unborn children. They want to spare you from the pain they have endured. How insensitve to call them names because you don't like what they are saying. I have to say it does not surprise me though. In response to what you said about science, I do believe that it is you that has a lack of education. You have not made one scientific point. I have a bs in biology and I am certified to teach highschool biology. I also think that your reference to taking medication is udder nonsence. You take medicine to help you body get back to it regular state and it does not fool the diesease, and you do not take it when it is not needed. I understand the desire for twins, but I do not understand how one so ignorant could ever be capable of raising them.

 

yas2000 - November 6

oh dear...whats the matter with all of you??? i have been away for a while had a very unlimited access to the net i think i managed to write one or two posts giving some advice and info and thats that?your mad to suggest i am here and writing so many posts under different names? i do have family you know to look after! anyway and now i come back and was told by one of the ladies in another post i should look into this one! oh my gosh! hahahahaha...i would like the lady who is mistaken to be me to please give at least her name. we obviously have the same views or she may have copied some of mine?this is so strange...well...mama bean whats the matter with you your still here??? i am definately sure your a home mum and have nothing esle to do..where do you get the time? i am back now on cd 22 and waiting to test. took clomid unprescribed with no side effects whatsoever...i even told my doc about it and had them give me a big lecture. but she said its my choice and as long as she hasn't got anything to do with it she doesnt really feel she needs to interfere whihc suits me just fine but the care me and my unborn baby/ies get if i were to fall pregnant is obviously going to be there. i had an internal telescope examination 2 weeks ago as i had some problems couple of months ago (the waiting list was long and this is what you get from national healthcare)...and was told everything seems fine. there were about 4 eggs ripe and ready. whether or not i have fallen preg with any or some of them i don't really knowso am waiting for cd27. i have had no pregnancy symptoms so i dont feel it going to be this month. in fact i have lost weight. anyway i will start a new thread if i become pregnant on clomid and will let everyone know how i will be doing. i would like to say to the lady who has such strong views as me and seems no problem expressing them obviously, to realize that people like mama-bean and premiemum etc are just people who are different to us. their morals are different to us and their believes we can try and explain but they cannot understand because we are all just different. we still have to respect each other..so the best thing to do is to ignore them and visa versa. and as you have put it correctly...its our choice our life and our decision. carrying on being nasty is futile...look at me i had a lovely half term holiday and come back to so much negativity???its sad...but thats life there are all sorts.

 

mama-beans - November 6

Give it up, Yas...... and yes, I'm home a lot with my wee one... my Real Estate office is out of my home. Although I don't see why that matters?...

 

2 cents - November 6

I have to agree with the original post-I came here thinking that I could be having two and I was shocked as to what I found. I even showed all my friends. I said-can you believe women are buying rx drugs because they WANT twins-one isn't enough for them?? They were shocked and I gave them the site-I wish there was someone I could report this to-it is no better than buying selling pain killers and such from the dealer on the corner to me. But what is funny is that these are Housewifes mostly!!!!

 

mama-beans - November 6

I think your reaction is on par with most others visiting this site.. I had the same reaction you did! I pa__sed the url on to all my friends, and each and every one of them was SHOCKED. See, most of my buddies are infertile, either completely or secondary, so most of them have had Clomid PRESCRIBED at one time or another. They have had countless meetings with specialists learning risks, etc, they have weighed pros and cons, and made their decision, WITH their doctor, to do what is best for their family. It seems some of THESE women couldn't give a c___p what is good for anyone but themselves. They are at a much higher risk for negative results then the women this drug was designed for, and don't care. Do you think they would care more when, 8 years down the line, they are suffering from Ovarian cancer because of abuse of this drug, and their husband has to watch them slowly die? Will they care when they lose a premature baby? How about when they get cysts so bad that their ovaries no longer function properly, and they can't have any more children? Will they care then? How about their families.. do you think THEY will care that these women ASKED for this heartache then? These are all things these women risk , above and beyond the risks of an infertile woman or a woman who is being monitored by a doctor, simply because they want the attention they think multiples would bring them. It is sad.

 

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