Husband Wants To Stop Trying For #2

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Mamaofone12 - July 20

my husband and I got pregnant at a young age. We were 20. Now, we have a healthy 2 year old. Well, for the past two months we have been trying to conceive baby number two. Yesterday he has sprung on me that he isn't ready. He said he's scared that we won't be able to do it. 

My problem with this is I am so heart broken now since we have been actively trying. I have goals for my life, too. As bad as it sounds, I don't want to be a stay at home mom forever. I would like to have 2 kids close in age so that I can go back to school and start a job. He said he wants to wait until our son is 4 but to me it's now or never. I really would prefer not to start over with a newborn. That would only prolong my dream to go back to school. So my question is, am I being selfish? I'm so completely heart broken. I don't even want to have sex with my husband because it is tearing me apart. 

 

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