Im A New Mommy And So Happy But

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newmommy08 - March 17

I just cant keep the negativity out of my head; im thinking of what if i have to decide whether or not I have to choose who lives? im aware of the pain; thats one thing i can't deny but i feel the urge to get online and search stuff on risks of pregnancy.. im 8weeks and so far everything is fine! Im eating right; jus not excercising yet! (but starting real soon) Does anyone feel that way and what can I do to get the NEAGATIVITY out of my head?!?! PLEASE AND THNxx

 

yumymumy - March 17

what do you mean by ''decide wether or not i have to choose who lives?'' just relax anxiety, gets the better of people when they become pregnant with there 1st child. it is a huge life changing experiance, things can go wrong but if your in the right care you will feel safe, once you have a appointment with a midwife or doc you will feel better. all you can do is think about your lil bean growing and picture the future and all thre good things, thinking negative all the time can cause you to stress and it can be unhealthy for you and bubs. congrats and goodluck!

 

newmommy08 - March 17

when i said ''decide wether or not i have to choose who lives?'' i meant that what if i had to die in order for my baby to survive or vice versa..

 

CoLark - March 17

You do have hormonal changes that can sometimes leave you anxious. Try to relax and trust the process a bit. When my daughter was born, it was so amazing to me how many things happened absolutely perfectly in order to end up with her perfect little body. It is hard to believe it, but most of the time, everything works out well. Otherwise, the human race would not have progressed as it has. Yumy is right; your doctor should rea__sure you that all is well.

 

newmommy08 - March 17

yeah they have a__sured me that; n i jus wanna say thanks for the input! i feel better now.. =)

 

newmommy08 - March 18

and another thing i been thinkin about is daycare.. its gonna be sad n hard for to send my little bundle of joy at such a young age; some mums are so fortunate to be able to stay home with their newborns while daddy works =( n the most frustrating thing is that i work 3rd shift; wo ill be getting very little sleep while baby is up during the day! oman its gonna be ruff; anyone in that position?

 

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