Need Some Advise

0 Replies
yadi1 - October 8

h__lo what can I do? my husband and I have been trough a lot, we have had 4m/c no kids yet, we have been together for 8yrs and married 6 yrs, i am 25 and he is 28 we are both young, I have diabetes type 2 controled and we is healthy too, I have been taking prenatal vitamins to be in the safe side since june, our loses have hurt us much and I have gotten very positive even when the drs say we are fertile no abnormalities in both of our genetics... they recommend trying again, at this poin my husband has determine that we are never going to have kids, I tell him that there is no reason to think like that..at this point I dont know what to do, I want to give it a try and see what happens... is a chance we can, I get pg easily dont need to try.. but I have been teling him to stop pulling out and he gets very stressed that last for a week or couple days after we have s_x... he still pulls out and he was just telling me last night that he feels that something is going to go wrong! I tell him if we dont try we are never going to know what is going to happen, we are financially stable, he has his business going and I work too, but im tired of been by my self, ,he is a truck driver so I see him on the weekends and maybe twice during the week, mostly on the nights, so I dont know what to do, I feel he is just thinking for himself instead of thinking what I desire too, my last m/c was on 07/06 more than a yr I m/c around 5-8 weeks, dr say its been bad luck and stress but my husband feels that after 4 times we are never going to have kids.... I about to give up.... I have been very patient... DOnt know what else to do, I told him this morning that Ias of today and always that part of me wanting kids is forgotten and what god gives us we have to take. Hope someone can give me advise or just to move on....

 

ADD A COMMENT:


You must log in to reply.

Are you New to the forum? Sign Up Here! Already a member? Please login below.

Forgot your password?
Need Help?
New to the forum?

Sign Up Here!


Already a member?
Please login below.





Forgot your password?
Need Help?  
Start A New Discussion