Hi Ladies, It sounds like I am...

SoReady - April 6th, 2009 5:45 PM
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Hi Ladies,
It sounds like I am in a simlar boat as some of you. I have a 2yr son and I want another baby. When I got prego my husband said that if it were a girl we could have a second baby but if it were a boy that was the only baby that he wanted to have. Since then he has bounced back in forth between not wanting anymore and maybe wanting 1 more. Last night we got into an arguement about having another baby and he said he was done. So what do I do? I have already seen my OB and she is prescribing me clomid for my irregular cycles. I want twins so bad because I had 3 other siblings and I thought it was great! My husband is an only child so he doesnt know that bond that siblings have; therfore he doesnt know what our son will be missing if he is an only child.
I am thinking about scheming! Here is what I am thinking: 1.) Twins run in my fathers side of the family. My grandmother was a twin and she had 2 sets of twins. 2.)I am thinking about taking 100mg of clomid on cd3-7. Do you think I have a shot at getting twins?
My husband is a great father and he loves our son! I have no doubt that he would continue to be a great father if we had more children. I think that if I got prego without him knowing that we were tring, he would initially be shocked but he would come around shortly. I have never mentioned twins to my husband because I know for sure that if he knew that I was aiming for twins there is no way he would be willing to have another baby.

I have started a thread under general pregnancy called "How to convince him to have another baby" if anyone would like to discuss this further with me.

Sorry if I have been rambling. Please tell me what yall think and has anyone schemed or is scheming. I might need some tips!


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