Hello DeeDee - and welcome, I know what you mean, it is fustrating and very disheartning... Let me guess... you sometimes feel like your not a real women? I feel that way too, I am very blessed to have my fiance though, he is very comforting and considerate of my feelings even though 50% of the time I am yelling or throwing things at him (hormones lol). I know what you mean by family pushing the fact of children, I think they forget sometimes that it's not as easy as it was back then, there is alot more to deal with in terms of medical conditions and health. But what I will say is don't loose faith and try not to give up. Don't ever feel bad to cry and share your feelings with people - it is the healthiest form of communication. My fiance always says that he loves seeing the emotional side of me because that is when I am most passionate and he can see me bearing his children and I absolutely love him for that... Keep your head up girl and we are always here... I have been on this site since the begining of my clomid journey and it has been the best thing for me! Lots of baby dust and keep me informed!
Mommysomeday - I know what you mean when people tell you to "RELAX' I think WTF? HAHA... but really I do tell them off - I don't see why anyone else apart from you and your partner should feel so strongly about YOUR future children. As for you 1ST RE - good thing you got rid of him, I have PCOS and I am overweight... My 1st RE was a male and he gave me the same run around as you for 6 months.... I wasted half a year with him for no reason and outcome... I then moved on to a female RE who realised how important this was for fiance and I - and she has been the biggest gift to us so far. BTW the male RE I had actually got fired from his practice for being judgemental.... Ha I thought Shame on him!!! There are a few girls on here that I used to correspond with, their names are Krissy68, and Jodi-ttc-08 I think? They have interesting stories. Have a read through theirs and mine, we may have something that can help you - never loose faith, otherwise you admit defeat. Thats what my grandmother used to say and that is what is helping me through this ordeal... I will have my 1st child next year, because I believe that in my heart not because I want to believe it... Keep strong, keep in touch k!!! Baby dust to you!!!
Somedaymommy - Again, don't let it defeat you - I am writing this to you and it has only been a couple of hours since I found out that my 1st round of clomid flopped! - But never mind because I believe it will and can happen. Get yourself and really good hands on RE that will answer all your questions and write down step by step what you have to do on specific days and things WILL work out, I will be damned if you don't have a success story to share with us in a few months! My RE wrote on paper the days in which my fiance and I needed to have sex! Haha could you imagine how embarassed my other half was - bless him! Keep us all posted on whats going on! And I will do the same for you!.... Take Care and Baby dust with little hugs coming your way!
sdillon777 - I understand what your saying by not wanting your Hubby to get anxious! But by the same token sharing the excitment and info is healthy that way he can always know what your thinking - I have done the same with my fiance and it has brought us closer than ever! - GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR 2WW! - I was expecting my period next Monday 8th Dec, however it showed up today - blasted thing - suppose I should be happy my body responded to the clomid, but heartbroken that it did come otherwise I could have hoped for a BFP! Never mind always another round to go and this time it will be 100mg for me! Let us know how it goes fingers and toes crossed for ya!!!xoxoxoxox
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