All I see here is me me me me.. Its your...

Waiting-Impatiently - November 8th, 2006 9:54 AM
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All I see here is me me me me.. Its your wife being examined, imagine how it feels for her, especially when you are describing it as "a form of adultery" shes going to be thinking shes done something wrong. You need to set your priorities right here. Your wife needs the best possible care, ie the best doctors, regardless of their sex. Thats whats important. I really think you're going too far with this, going into the point of panicking about who is going to be in the room when she has the caesarean.. Thats going to be the least of her worries at the time, would you rather she has a serious operation performed by a female less competent (and NO I'm not saying they are) than experienced practitioner just because he's male. Believe me theres nothing sexual about Dr-patient relationships. She wont be laying naked on an operating table! The only parts of her showing will be where she will be cut, and her head! And I doubt many men will be thinking sexually when a heavily pregnant woman is having her guts cut open anyway... Come on, I know its not nice, but its all part of having children, it not a nice business, and if you cant deal with it maybe stop getting her pregnant! You're going to be making her feel terrible being so disgusted when you have sex


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