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like micsmms3 said. she's hormonal. unfortunately you kind of just have to grin and bear it. she needs support right now. especially if she's a new mom, she's probably scared. and to add a new marriage to boot. it's a lot of change at one time. my husband and i got married when i was 5 months pregnant and we have fights. a lot. sometimes big ones, sometimes stupid trivial ones. i'd cry for no reason out of the blue. add to that the fears of becoming a parent for the first time. as well as worrying whether your SO will still find you attractive when your body has changed so much. it's a lot to deal with.

it's a big step. i'm sorry you're having problems with this now, but just stay with it. be supportive and she should eventually come around. but don't just assume as soon as the baby comes out things will be right back to normal. my boys are 4 months now and i'm still a basketcase some days. the frist year of marriage is when most marriages fail and the first year of parenthood can be one of the the most stressfull and trying. be there for eachother. :)

goodluck.

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