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Wow, that sounds rough. It appears that your relationship is already over. It is manipulative sick to keep saying she is going to kill herself when she doesn't get her way. She certainly seems to have some serious emotional issues.
I would not put off the inevitable. You need to separate and I also think that you should not distance yourself from your friends. You will need the emotional support and also the diversion that your friends can provide.
All you can do is be there to help her through her pregnancy (as a friend rather than a couple). If she continues with the suicide threats, I would get in contact with a hospital that can do some kind of evaluation in case she may be serious about these threats. This will also set a precident if you are planning to get full or partial custody of the child since she is mentally unbalanced.
Although it may be embarassing, you should open up to your friends, it will make you feel better and they may have some valuable ideas for you. That's what friends are for.

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