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Hello Rasta. I am pretty sure that your girlfriend is just in a panic. It is probably her hormones. Most any woman who has been pregnant will tell you that it is just hormones and she will probably go back to her normal self once the baby is born or shortly after. My fiance is around 26 weeks along and we have been going through this big time. She has major mood swings and sometimes distances herself from me or snaps at me for no reason. You have to understand that if this is just her hormones going crazy, she really cannot help how she reacts toward you. It is natural for her to become selfish and not care about your needs for the most part, because maybe in her mind she is thinking that "you did this to me". I will say that your gf started this much earlier than mine did. But it is different for all women. one thing you have to think about is this, how much of a history do you have with her before she got pregnant? You may not really know what she is like in a difficult situation. You really find out who a person is when trouble arises. My advice is this, give her the space she needs and be there for her if she wants you to be there. Pray for her if you pray, and even if you don't, pray for her anyway. If you love her, give her what she asks for. I know it's hard because she is pregnant with your child, but if communicating with her pushes her away, then just back off and you get with friends who can encourage you and get your mind on other things, if at all possible. I will be praying for you ,man.

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