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Well, man, maybe you could send her an email or write her a letter expressing your thoughts to her. That way you could have exactly what you want to say and read it yourself to make sure it's just right. If you don't think that will work, then you may have to just wait and not contact her at all unless she makes contact first which is next to impossible being as she is carrying your baby, but maybe once she notices that you are not trying to contact her anymore, she will wonder what is up and perhaps she will wake up and see that she may be losing you and realize that she still wants you around. This has worked with my fiance numerous times in the last few months. It takes patience, that's for sure. You are going through similar struggles as me but I assume this your first child. My fiance and I both have 3 kids each and one on the way. We were going to get married and she recently gave the engagement ring back to me and said she doesn't want to marry me nor keep the baby. She wants to give the baby to her twin sister and her husband, in fact we are meeting them this saturday to discuss the possibility of them adopting our son when he is born. I do not want this but after much prayer, I have to consider what's best for the baby, and not just what "I" want. Do I want a baby going back and forth between 2 split, single parent homes struggling to support him with each home having only one income? Her sister is married and has 2 boys and her husband and her are great parents and could give the baby so much more than we could. I am not trying to make your situation sound less than mine, I just want you to know that you are not alone in the not knowing if your pregnant gf is still in love with you. Mine has not said she loves me in months, but when we were together the first 4 months, she would say it often and couldn't stay away from me for more than a day at a time. You may have a rough road ahead of you ,man, but don't give up. In fact, I was thinking about your situation tonight while I was driving and there is a movie that I have that inspired me to never give up on my fiance and our relationship. It is called Fireproof, starring Kirk Cameron. it is mainly for married couple whose marriages are in turmoil heading for divorce but I guarantee that if you watch it, you will be encouraged to stay on course and may give you ideas on how to reach her heart and show her how much you truly love her. God bless you, man.

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