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Hello again, Rasta. I was just re-reading your last post, and the part where you said you think you should just put your foot down and stop being so nice to her when she is being so cold is probably not a good idea. I have heard it said that if a woman was crazy about you before she got pregnant, but is now pregnant and acting totally irrational, that when she has the baby or shortly after, she will go back to being crazy about you again. It is just her hormones. If this is the case, it is in your best interest and the baby's to just be there for her when she needs you and leave her alone when she wants to be left alone. She will look abck on this in the future and be so thankful that you didn't treat her bad and that you loved her enough to suffer through this for her. By the way, I am sorry for what I said on my last post about maybe she just used you to have a baby, I was stupid for suggesting that and probably made you paranoid. That is probably not the case, it was just a thought and hope I was way off. Just stay strong, man. I am having to be strong this weekend. My fiance called yesterday and said that our trip to see her sister and her sister's husband about maybe adopting our baby, was cancelled, so now I have to wait longer to get that overwith and on top of that I went to see her lastnight and she isn't feeling well, but instead of wanting me to take care of her, she wanted to be left alone and so I drove the 45 minutes back here and am waiting until she does want me there. I know that may sound weak, but she is pregnant with my child and I have a responsibilty to be there for her whenever she needs me. Well, let me know how things are going. God bless you.

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