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i was just reading your posts and thought i would give a womans perspective. i am married and have 3 beautiful children and one on the way. my husband is a great guy who tries hard, but i am 11 weeks pregnant and nothing he does is right. my temperment is totally off. i just had my first doctors appt. and had to tell the midwife that i felt like i was going crazy. when my husband isnt around i feel bad that i have been so rude to him, but the minute he is in front of me , i am off my rocker. i can't explain it, but it is hormones that are just messing with me. i am normally a pretty laid back person, but this pregnancy has brought out the worst in me. i know this isn't advice, but it is what is happening to me and i am sure other women feel the same. also, if you havn't seen her and she isn't returning calls and is being short with you, are you sure she is still pregnant?? if she lost the baby, this could also explain why she is avoiding you. she may know how commited you are trying to be and may not want to fess up in fear that you will blame her. are you sure she was pregnant in the first place?? is there a possibility that she used this as a way of scaring you off, and when it didn't, maybe she panicked and just shut you out altogether. you sound like a nice guy and maybe her feelings weren't as strong as yours and you just scared her. a month and a half is not a long time, maybe she wasn't expecting such strong words of emotion so soon. i don't know you or her, but there could be so much more going on with her than just the pregnancy and trying to figure things out. i don't know any woman who would rather raise a child alone than with a great guy. just consider the possibilities.

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