Pregnancy Info HOME

Me and my girlfriend got pregnant way to fast. Im pretty sure we got pregnant after the third week of dating.. Are relationship was GREAT.. we were in love.. loved being with each other, it was just all great.. untill she found out she was pregnant. Once she found out she was pregnant everything was. we talked about baby names and everything was going smooth.. after 2 weeks everything started changing.. she called me one night and wanted to talk. So i met her and she just wanted to take a break for a couple of weeks.. i was ok with that becaue i didnt figure it was going to be like a day and we would be right back together.. she told me that she needed a break because we were arguing about things, and we couldent agree on anything.. ill admit there was a few things that we could not agree on.. Anyway the next two days i didnt hear anything from her so i started to get worried, and i called her and she pretty much told me that she did not want to be with me anymore that she just wanted me to take care of her and the baby.. i told her that me and you need to work on things to if there is such a problem.. she said she didnt want to work on anything right now that she just wanted to be alone.. well a week later i moved back in with her and it went down down from there... and i promiss i tryed every lil thing i could think of to make her happy. but nuttin worked i did not argue about anything waht ever she said.. i told her that was ok and thats the way will do it.. i took over all her bills so she didnt have to worry about money or bills.. i would ask her if she wanted me to rub her back.. id do dishes, close, anything that i could think of to make her happy and it just keep on getting worse. she stayed in the same bed as me the first night and the rest of the week she stayed on the couch... i just dont know why all of this is happening i am trying everything i can try... i started asking other ppl if i am doing something wrong or if im not doing something that i should be and no one can help... i love this gurl more then anything in the world and want us and this baby to have a good like together.. i dont want a boken home and i just dont know waht to do to help us.. 2 weeks before she found out she was pregnant, she though i was the greatest guy that could have ever come into her life and always telling me im never leaving her... what happen... i have not talk to her in a few days or stayed with her in a few weeks but she has told me a few times that i have not done anything wrong.. and she dont know why she dont want me around but she just doesnt at all.. she just wants to be alone.. i just hope she dont want to raise this baby by her self cause i want us to have a wonderful life together.... but she has told me a few times that she wants me to be part of this baby life and will never keep the baby from me.. but what happen to us.. it was everything a guy could ask for then turned to the coldest relationship you could ever be in ... i just love her soooooo much and want a great life with her but nuttin is helping. she just does not want me in her life right now at all but she does want me to be in the babys life when the baby gets here.. she even tells me when the baby apointments are and i went on the first one today and she seemed fine and happy... but it was easy to tell we were not together... i do not understand how your relationship can be the best you could ask for and 2 weeks after you get pregnant she dont want you anymore and will not call or even try to make it work... i have run out of things to say to her and try for us.. she even told me to move on that she was not treating me right and i could do better... but i dont want anyone else just her and are baby thats on the way...if she just knew how bad this has hurt me staying up alll night with no sleep hating to go to work... its killing me tha we are not together.... as of today she will tell me she dont know why she is like this and does not know why she dont want me but she just wants to be by her self....i know once she found out she was pregnant she has pushed untill we are no longer talking and she told me if me and her dont work she will not be with another guy..i just love her and cant figure out if she was sooooo into me after finding out she is pregnant why push me so far away.. if you have any idea what is wrong will you please try and help me please

reply