Well I think first off that their is nothing proud of being a dancer at the age of only 14, i dont care how mature you are physically and emotionally let alone mentally. I dont know many men who are ok with other men seeing their wife or girlfriend entertaining others for the sole purpose of money. Its quite degrading, you really thing she will get that perfect body back? Maybe she will, maybe she wont. Having ababy will change everything in her life and not to mention, her parents dont have to agree to letting her stay with you, hey may demand that she live with them because of the fact that they dont understand how a 19 year old "man" wants to involve himself with someone who cant even get their drivers permit for 2 more years. Its kind of gross. I am quite mature for my age, but even with me being almost 20 , i would be damned if i would involve my self with a man who is almost 30. its gross.
Physically, I cant see planning for a pregnancy at 14, whther or not she is mature or not, she still only has a body fit for a 14 year old, andything can happen. I think if you would of really sat and figured things out beofre getting her pregnant , you would of seen its alot harder to raise a baby than you think. In 2001, it was estimated that from the age of birth to 18, it cost more than 170,000 dollars to raise a child. Thats alot of money and its now 4 years later?
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