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Hi it's Jen Dannys girlfriend I thought I'd post a message on here regarding "concerned" msg. I'd just like to say that after you've obviously read some msgs on here if not all, that I thinks it's bad of you to have wrote to my finace "Don't commit to this girl". The bad bit being that your suggesting to my finace the man who loves me and cares for myself and my wellbeing that he shouldn't commit to me (even though we've both already commited to eachother, and everyone already knows that), were going to be having our twins together very shortly and your saying he shouldn't commit to me? Only a coward of a man would leave a girl who he got pregnant to raise her baby/babies by herself. I'm sorry but in my opinion I was disgraced by hearing that, especially by you already being aware of how much were in love with eachother! And I know the stories, everyone does, of couples who get together young and have babies and think they are so in-love and think they'll be together forever and then a few years down the line they break-up or get divorced, and their babies are left without a parent unit, well I can promise and tell everyone on this forum that this isn't going to happen to us and for anyone who is thinking in their minds that that will happen to us, well quite frankly either of us don't care, because at least in our minds we no the truth. When my boyfriend proposed to me by me saying yes I was agreeing on making a long life commitment to him, and thats something that I wouldn't even think of breaking. Now me and Danny have been through a lot together, good times and bad times, and we haven't gone through all of that to throw it all away now or ever. We've always supported, cared for and loved eachother and It's always going to be that way for us. Some couples won't be as lucky as myself and Danny to have such a strong and loving relationship, thats why I am so thankful that I have that with him! Also, people have posted msgs on here saying that Dannys stupid for being with me, because I'm young and he shouldn't of got me pregnant etc, etc... but just think of this, there are plenty of girls in here not knowing what to do, feeling depressed, upset and used, because their boyfriends have left them when finding out they were pregnant, but even though my man might be older than me, at least he has stayed by me from the moment we found out I was pregnant, some girls aren't so fortunate and I'd just appreciate people bearing that in mind. Sorry for being so harsh "concerned" but I just really don't agree with that one thing you said. Many thanks to everyone elses posts, I try to read them when I can (but mainly Danny does) because I'm resting all of the time now, because the babies are nearly due! Thanks again, take care everyone. XxX

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