***To all the young girls posting their ...

Tapanga - November 17th, 2006 9:57 AM
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***To all the young girls posting their questions*** When I was 14 I met my 9 years older than me "true love" and at 16 we planned a pregnancy which resulted in a beautiful, smart, awesome baby girl.

Now I WAS more mature than my age. I had been working full time supporting myself in my own place since I was 13. Taking highschool corospondence.

Unfortunatly, I think generally speaking, if an older man is interested in that young of a girl (no matter how mature or not) he is immature.

Now, my daughter is almost 4. He left when she was 1 (actually I kicked him out of my apartment after 8 months of sponging off me) he has paid NO child support, even though I filed a month before he moved out. He left the province, and the courts are still working on enforcing child support.

He does not speak to me, or his daughter, has not since he left.

I cant's say I regret my daughter...but I wholeheartedly regret having her so young.

Now he is claiming her on his taxes, so I got investigated for tax fraud...

I'm not being negative, this is just the unfortunate facts of my first pregnancy. While relationships of all kinds happen, all I say is safe guard YOURSELF, make the right decisions for YOU, and your baby too.


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