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On one hand I do agree with Bill. But intimacy doesn't always involve just sex. There have been times I didn't feel too sexy but my husband Joel coaxed it out of me by telling me how in love with my body he was. I really think women feel as though they are not attractive during pregnancy because a lot of men do not let them know they are still gorgeous. And if more men told their ladies that, believe me they would be getting a lot more than 10 minutes of letting them know they are alive. And to Stacy, with my first born my fiance did cheat on me as well. The female looked a lot like me and he claimed that she was a way of getting the old me back. Well we broke up until Mikael was three months old, then got back together. And you know what? He was still seeing her the whole time. So really get yourself out of that situation or you'll not only hurt you, but the baby as well. I felt like a piece of shit when I gave birth in the hospital and he didn't show up. I cried that I had driven my son's father away. But you know what? When Mikael was 1 1/2 years old I met someone so perfect I am glad that all of that bad stuff happened--because if it didn't I wouldn't have the sweetest man on earth that I have now. He deals with my up and down hormones, flucuating sex drive, and everything--and he rarely complains. He works almost 85 hours a week to take care of me, my son, and the newcomer that is due August 22nd. And when Mikael gets old enough to ask questions, I will answer them honestly. I will tell him any male can sire a child but it takes a real man to be a daddy--and that having Joel as a daddy makes it even more special because Joel chose to be his daddy.

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