Martin, all of us pregnant ladies have been through the first semester tiredness, it is not fun. However, most doctors will tell her that the best way to get rid of the tiredness is to be active and take naps throughout the day. and most of all sleep well through the night. I understand that it is difficult but you really do need to talk to her. I do not think you are being a bad husband I just think your wife is being a little overdramitic. just be sympathetic to her needs and go and talk to her doctor together. most woman if they have concerns or questions they ask the doctor and then feel better. maybe if her doc told her it was ok to do chores around the house she will be more willing. there are some thing s she wont be able to do like lifting heavy layndry baskets and things like that but most stuff is ok for her too do. and actually i personally felt a whole lot better when i was being active instead of lying around all day. hope i helped a little. you are not a bad husband and dont pay attention to those who say you are.
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