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I'd come up with a plan on how you are going to afford this baby, as it is insanely expensive to have a child in daycare (my area 150 - 250 a week for a newborn, I pay 208 for a high quality care center). Add formula and diapers and you can expect little one to cost 1000. a month, mine does. Once you figure out how you are going to make it work, then tell him. You are going to have to be the strong one here, and present it in a firm and loving way - he may blame you for everything in every situation because we, as women, tend to take the blame in an effort to calm things down... that wont work here. Talk to your family and see what support they can offer, and then present a united front. And be careful, many men HAVE killed their pregnant girlfriends/ wives to avoid the financial burden that is going to be a part of his life for the next 18 years, and I am sure if they thought their mates were serious, they wouldn't be dead. Be careful, and best of luck.

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