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Hey john8424, guess what man? LOL, you know I find it surprising that i'm actually in a good mood but today I made contact with my girl or officially now my "ex" and man, she is the #1 ROYAL BITCH in The United States.

Just last week me and my girl were two love birds and then just suddenly flat out one 1, she tells me that is over and she needs to be alone because she is very stressed.

Well, I did just that, waited 3 days and went to go see her, man what was that for, she was worse than ever. So LIVE I bring you right now her response on myspace...her first response was,

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Body: Leave me alone
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Ok
point taken, lol. That was an old message tho, then she responded to the next one.

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Jul 3, 2009 6:11 PM
Subject: Re:
Body: Understand that i want u and everybody to leave me alone im sorry but i dont love u sorry but just move on with ur life like ima do with mine ok
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Sure
thing miss grumpy woman. Thanks for braking my heart and telling me you don't love me anymore. This isnt the first time she does this folks, see the hormones at work. Now, for the next one, oh you guys will love this one.

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Date:Jul
3, 2009 6:19 PM
Subject:re
Body: Look im sorry for you hurting but i dont want nothing ima give u a dna test so everybody knows but for now my decision is to put my last name on the baby ok im not going to give u a pic cuz there mine and i want them ok sorry tell my mom to send it to u or something i dont want to be cold but its just how i feel that person warning i dont kno who it is but i bet they care for me alot alot so for u and me leave me alone
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Talk
about being rude and then saying your sorry! Here she tells me its over and she doesn't want nothing else to do with me. Then she says shes going to give me a DNA test so that everyone knows its my kid, why would you do this when I know its mine. And the rest is just being rude, not wanting to give me a pic of the sonogram, her decision to put the baby her last name...which sort of states that she will continue to feel like this until the baby is born, etc.

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During a text message conversation previous to these myspace messages, I called her "baby" and she responded with the following.

"don't call me baby i dont want to be urs or no ones baby and stop going to my moms house"

Let me tell you, I have never seen anyone so rude in my life but she can't fool me. I know her too well, she is acting this way to push me further away by making me feel hopeless.

She is due November 17th of this year, so she has about 5 more moths to go before she gives birth. The hormonal roller coaster is kicking into action now i've noticed one thing that is very interesting and you guys will be amazed.

The first time she broke up with me and got like this was back in early April, the last month of her first Trimester, during that month she began the shift of a dark cold personality just a couple of days before.

Here is the shocking part! She began that same trend again, acting the same way, dark and cold and guess what? Yes you guessed it, its the last month of her second trimester! Isn't that a coincidence?

On June she revealed to me that she was acting the way she did because of the hormones and the pregnancy. And that she feels horrible about everything she did and she always loved me and that she did all that to push me away because she could not control how she was feeling. We spent the entire month of June together "in love" with each other. So my best guess is to leave this girl alone and sit around and wait for the month of September, that is aprox. 60 days from now! Shit, thats 2 long months that I will spend alone again but for the sake of the relationship, I will leave this girl alone for 60 days, no contact, no messaing, nothing.

I have concluded that every trimester has a different hormonal shift. Since she is almost beginning her last trimester the third, I think the hormone levels will be at their highest and this can fuck up the emotional state of a woman so bad that she will want no one around her. Remember, they have no control over this, you just shift into this new mode and you transform and became this other person yet again.

To be honest, not seeing me for 60 days is not going to make her miss me...why not? Its the no contact rule...yeah sure but remember, these are HORMONES, you can't win a battle with hormones, she will be perfectly happy and will not miss anyone during this transitional state, not until hormone levels settle down again and then will she realize what she has done.

It will be interesting to see how my "ex" does further along down September, I think I should contact her again or simply wait for her to contact me at some point. And what ever I must do, I shall not show any signs of weakness on my part!

Well until next time folks, feel free to leave your comments, they help a lot!

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