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Hi Ladies! I see my post made a comeback lol I forgot about this one for a little while - gbsmom ..I actually had lunch with his mother the other day and we were talking and you are right on with that one because she was saying how his dad never does anything for her and his dad never did etc etc and that she gave up a long time ago on them and anyone ever doing anything special for her .. I actually felt bad for her but that is how I brought it up to my SO .. I told him wow I feel bad for your mom because your dad never does anything for her for mothers day - that is surprising (cause his dad is a pretty nice guy) and I was saying how it isn't about being THEIR mother it is about being the mother to their child and all most women want is a little acknowledgment or something cause LORD knows when he does something he wants that .. he didnt say much just kind of took it in so maybe it will sink in who knows.. I have tried talking to him about what I kind of look for in a relationship and we always end up in a fight so I try and find ways around saying something and that typically works .. we shall see .. O and by the way it really sounds like you ladies have some awesome men :) Lucky lucky lucky!! I was telling my SO's mom that I was in a relationship where I was the one to do all the 'caring' like I did everything for him and then it was me doing for him and him doing for him and no one doing for me - and that I will NOT be in that situation again for some women it is ok but not for this one .. I have no problem taking care of my man and thinking of him and doing sweet things for him but I do want him to want to do that for me too .. otherwise I will be single and do for me and that will be that.. maybe she will pass it along haha

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