Hi there! I am pregnant with our 2nd ba...

armywife4ever08 - February 9th, 2009 3:03 AM
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Hi there! I am pregnant with our 2nd baby and my daughter is 15months old and I am 15 weeks pregnant lol. Anywho, my husband is deployed so I don't have to worry about anything since I'm not trying to show off for anyone, but when I was pregnant with my first I would buy "sexy outfits" to wear to bed to spice it up a little. Because I don't know about you, but with being pregnant you are normally more hornier than you are when you're not pregnant (or maybe I'm just a wierdo lol). Anyways, although my husband is super sweet and will tell me I look wonderful I can't help but see through the line of b.s. because although my boobs are bigger and fuller I don't think it's exactly sexy rubbing bellies while having sex. ( my hubby already has a little belly lol). So, I would say now that I know how exhausting it truely is and how tight money is now a days with the economy, that when your toddler is taking there nap I would try to get as much accomplished as possible, like pluck your eyebrows, shave your legs that haven't seen daylight for forever, put on some earrings and some makeup and wear some suductious looking outfit, and spray on some light perfume and my husband says "babe if you were to ever just take me to the bedroom the second I got home I would be in heaven." So maybe try having your son go to the babysitters or a "play date" and have it just the two of you. Or arrange for just a night out for both of you. I am a stay at home mom so I do know that paying for a babysitter comes out of pocket, but c'mon it is a HUGE help sometimes especially when you're trying to spice things up! You can use eye creams for under your eyes or I was also told by a friend that the Prenatal pills have some sort of boosting energy in them and to take them in the afternoon instead of at the beginning of the day or night also. So to re-iterate, I would check your baby into a daycare and not tell your hubby just do it as a surprise one day and go home and get all spiced up and light some candles, turn on some mood music and be waiting for him when he came through the door, I'm definitely sure he wouldn't see that one coming from a mile away. Or if your sex life is just fine, then still take some time for yourself since kids are a handful, and spend the day at the spa for once since having him and treat yourself to a day of pampering and relaxation! Hope this helps!


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